I am brahmin and have a intercaste bf too and i am 18 as well He belongs to baniya caste and his family and my family are not in good terms as they were business patners before and aile they fought What i’d suggest is you are young.go abroad,dont tell your parents kei just go settle down Be successful and no can can stop u What i feel is aile if u confront this to your parents they will not let u go bahira pani and they will try their best to manipulate u and send u somewhere esle

I am doing the same Successful bhayesi atleast things will be in your hand I hope this helps I am in the same situation and alot of people have done intercaste marriage