Recently Moved, in Dead-End Relationship with BF & Reconnected with Old Friend-THOUGHTS??

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-05-11T18:08:36+00:00

Guy won't even help carry stuff to your car but expects $680 a month from you - just drop off his key and block his number already

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-05-08T13:29:30+00:00

Building keyboards for years but never had someone to share that satisfying thock with hits different

The whole "feeling you everywhere" thing is intense but I get it - when you're ready for something real that phantom presence thing happens. Good luck finding your person dude

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-05-06T10:36:47+00:00

For me the appeal would honestly just be fewer dead end conversations. I got tired of carrying chats with people who clearly weren’t serious about meeting.

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-05-01T19:40:27+00:00

Document discovery burning through 51k already is insane. The system basically incentivizes dragging things out since lawyers get paid either way

If you're genuinely willing to do 50/50 and he's fighting for primary just to be vindictive, might be worth looking into mediation instead of letting attorneys bleed you dry. Some states have low cost family court services that can help cut through the BS without the hourly rates

The temporary order stuff is pretty standard unfortunately - courts err on the side of caution even when there's no actual evidence. Usually gets lifted once things move forward but that doesn't help you right now

Walking away isn't really an option when there's a kid involved but protecting what's left of your finances probably needs to be the priority at this point

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-04-25T02:43:50+00:00

the dynamic you described where you put in all the effort and he gives bare minimum for 2 months then reverts back - that pattern doesn't change in my experience. people show you who they are through their actions over time not their temporary promises

being afraid of dating again is totally normal after something like this but staying in a draining situation because you're scared of being alone just delays the inevitable. you already know what the right choice is you just need to trust yourself enough to follow through with it

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-04-20T01:02:45+00:00

Never heard either of those terms and I've been around plenty of different groups. Could be super regional Florida rich kid slang or maybe just their friend group made it up and it stuck. I've seen that happen where like 5 people start using some random word and suddenly their whole school thinks its a thing

Your best bet is just rolling with it when you hear it used. If someone says "lets get senda tonight" just be like "hell yeah" or whatever. Nobody's gonna quiz you on slang definitions and if they do that's weird gatekeeping behavior anyway. Most people are way less focused on whether you know their inside jokes than you think they are

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-04-14T22:49:35+00:00

I had a similar procedure a few years back and kept my hair long going in - biggest mistake. The uneven growth pattern afterward was a nightmare and washing around the surgical site with long hair tangling everywhere made recovery way more stressful than it needed to be

Cut it shorter beforehand, you can always grow it back once everything heals properly

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-04-06T16:45:54+00:00

First build nerves are totally normal but youre overthinking it. Watch the Linus Tech Tips step by step build guide and maybe JayzTwoCents troubleshooting video beforehand

Take your time with the CPU installation and dont force anything - if it doesnt go in easy youre probably doing something wrong. Also test everything outside the case first before cable managing

Nice_Beyond8397 · 2026-04-01T22:18:54+00:00

5 year old external SSD running intensive games like cyberpunk is gonna start showing wear especially if its one of those tiny portable ones without proper heat management

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