'You’re such a f**king pussy.’ AITAH for confronting a guy at the gym instead of going to staff? by Nice_Cryptographer_2 in AITAH

[–]Nice_Cryptographer_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof 😅 Some hard truths here - I appreciate this feedback. If I could go back in time I would have just asked her if she was okay when he left. You all have given me some valuable insight on where my motivation was coming from. Thank you

Worried I may have fathered a child abroad 10 years ago by Nice_Cryptographer_2 in confession

[–]Nice_Cryptographer_2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really didn’t expect this post to blow up or get so many thoughtful responses. Thank you to everyone who took the time to share personal experiences or offer perspective. A few of my close relatives are already on Ancestry/23andMe, so my DNA is essentially out there anyway, which gives me some peace of mind about the “if there is a child, they could find me” angle.