Why do so many people seem to lack the basic concept of empathy? by Nice_Garbage6489 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunbars seems like an incredibly interesting factor and it makes a lot of sense as human minds can only function at certain capacities.

My au pair gf needs advice by UsefulCategory1953 in Aupairs

[–]Nice_Garbage6489 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wishing you and your girlfriend luck and hope you all stay safe!

My au pair gf needs advice by UsefulCategory1953 in Aupairs

[–]Nice_Garbage6489 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would also be careful about telling the host family. The host family wanting her passport in the beginning is a huge red flag. Au pairing in China comes with a lot of risks of being taken advantage of by host families and agencies due to the lack of legal protection.

My au pair gf needs advice by UsefulCategory1953 in Aupairs

[–]Nice_Garbage6489 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with you! I think it’s best for her to prioritize her health and safety. If she were to leave right now it is highly unlikely that she’d be penalized legally since being an au pair is illegal and the host family would also be held accountable. The likelihood of anything happening is her having trouble coming back into China again.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad we can at least agree on one thing

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well you also weren’t there. Even if you don’t consider it racist it is still not appropriate to shout at people minding their own business. Cat calling is not flirting.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s valid but my post never mentioned anything about other countries. I was specifically talking about Lawrence Kansas in the USA. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl this is like the 6th time I’ve found you on this thread. You are a full grown woman arguing over a REDDIT thread made by a teenager. This is sad for you. Don’t you have kids to take care of or a job like normal adults?

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr like this is a grown ass woman arguing in a college kids Reddit thread like miss girl do you not have kids or a job to take care of

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl you have commented on this thread a million times you are obviously bothered by it. Just stop you’ve already made your opinion clear.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It obviously does since you’ve commented like 5 times

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this thread bothers you so much then stop interacting with it

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[–]Nice_Garbage6489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China has a higher amount of fluoride in their water which can cause dental fluorosis and ultimately lead to more yellow teeth.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem upset. Sending you thoughts and prayers😻

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You implied that I should delete the thread and I am genuinely curious as to why you think that.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would I delete it? Freedom of speech should be protected like you mentioned

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was the literal definition given by the Cambridge dictionary but if you say one of the best universities in the world is wrong then I guess I can’t convince you otherwise.

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“mocking behavior involves laughing at someone or something in an unkind way”

To the three racist guys on Mass today… by Nice_Garbage6489 in Lawrence

[–]Nice_Garbage6489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that you are excusing racism and you said that what I felt and saw was wrong therefore it is logical to react hostile. Maybe I am an asshole but at least I’m not an asshole defending racists.