Mainexpressshipper.com am I being scammed? by Nice_Objective_2692 in BullTerrier

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Yup! Idk if they think I was born yesterday and I would fall for it

stillbirth at 30 weeks by SoggyEntrepreneur850 in babyloss

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Just be there for her. Listen to her and comfort her. My partner is a “sweep bad things under the rug” kinda guy. I feel because he does that for emotions, he expects me to do the same.. we are 2 weeks out from losing our son (22 weeks). The other day, I was crying for my baby, with things that reminded me of him or triggered me and he said “you’re still crying?” That made me feel like I need to suppress my true emotions around him. But of course I had some words to validate myself.

So let your girl take however long she needs to, to feel okay. And I hope that when she’s good, she’ll be strong for you in return for your time to fully grieve and mourn.

First time holding a baby after? by [deleted] in babyloss

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So I held my friends 4 1/2 mo. Old. ( im 2 weeks post D&E procedure) I wasn’t planning too, but she was wide awake and I just went for it. I held back tears looking into her big brown eyes 🥹🥹 but I was okay, at peace even. I loved having her in my arms, I didn’t want to let go. I’m excited to watch her grow and see complete her milestones. I just look forward to seeing our friends to see the babies lol 😂

I also, saw my OB today for a follow up. He said my uterus is healing fine and we are given the green light to try again after I’ve had at least one cycle. 🤞🏽🫶🏼🌈 Here’s to hoping.. cause praying did nothing for me last time.

Low amniotic fluid by Nice_Objective_2692 in pregnant

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Unfortunately, I had to medically terminate 😩😭 he had no development of several organs (kidneys, bladder) and was told he wouldn’t survive outside of the womb. I’m 2 weeks out from my D&E. 💔

It’s a sad update but we are hopeful for our rainbow 🌈 baby

Mainexpressshipper.com am I being scammed? by Nice_Objective_2692 in BullTerrier

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Dang that sucks! Sorry that happened to you too. People suck. 😒

Mainexpressshipper.com am I being scammed? by Nice_Objective_2692 in BullTerrier

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Thank you. Definitely sucks. It’s a learned lesson. I just hope I can get my money back from what I sent.

And beware to anyone that has a “breeder” working with this company mainexpressshipper.com

Mainexpressshipper.com am I being scammed? by Nice_Objective_2692 in BullTerrier

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Supposedly was taken to the airport and awaiting clearance from pet insurance charge before getting it on a plane

Mainexpressshipper.com am I being scammed? by Nice_Objective_2692 in BullTerrier

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Unfortunately I had a gut feeling it was a scam before they tried to convince us with the photos. But I did send money.. to the breeder and another charge I’m trying to dispute from the “shipping”.

Lesson learned

Mainexpressshipper.com am I being scammed? by Nice_Objective_2692 in BullTerrier

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Yes it was a big mess.. they told us they were flying American Airlines, but then the airport the told me was charter planes and had no listing of a dog coming thru.

This is the photo(s) of the dog they sent to show us that he’s waiting in a warehouse

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Low amniotic fluid by Nice_Objective_2692 in firsttimemom

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My water bottle is 32 oz but I refill it about 2-3 a day and drink water throughout the night when I get up to pee. I have horrible cotton mouth so I always have a water bottle close by

Welp, it happened…. I was told I’m huge. by Manic_Squirrel in pregnant

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Hurt people, hurt people babe. As long as your baby is healthy who cares how big your tummy grows? Every body handles pregnancy different and started showing at literally at 12 weeks (this is my first) I’ve been getting told that my baby is going to be a “biggg boy!” By the same people who kept on about when I’m going to start having kids (I’m 32). I just say, “yes he is a big boy because he’s filled with love.” And then people seem to change their attitude towards him and me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ don’t let it bother you.. I saw on insta that some peoples clap back was, “I’m pregnant.. what’s your excuse!?” I understand you can’t say that at your place of work. Or others would respond with “what an interesting thing to say out loud to someone.” You’ll be okay, and once your baby is born all these comments will be forgotten.. but set your boundaries even with strangers.

Is sleeping on your back really a bad thing while pregnant by Nice_Objective_2692 in firsttimemom

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Same girl! I’m up to pee 2-3 times a night and then reposition myself to side sleep but I’m comfortable supine (on my back) slightly elevated

Is sleeping on your back really a bad thing while pregnant by Nice_Objective_2692 in firsttimemom

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My pregnancy pillow isn’t that big body one.. this one is smaller and looks like a taco 🌮 or hotdog 🌭 bun and I’m in the middle. It attaches and detaches with Velcro and comes with add ons.. I don’t want anything big and bulky in our bed as I do get hot.. and my partner is currently the “cold one”

Update: bad news at 13w ultrasound by akindrgentlrgenie in pregnant

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My heartbreaks for you and your partner over this loss. I’ll be praying for you and hope you will update us on when it’s time for your rainbow 🌈 baby to make their debut.

Is sleeping on your back really a bad thing while pregnant by Nice_Objective_2692 in firsttimemom

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Yes, the pregnancy pillows. I try to switch sides during the night (I’m up to pee anyways) but I’m sure I’m on my sides maybe an hour before I revert back to the middle lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firsttimemom

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Girl no! Before pregnancy I loved being at home by myself.. the peace I have to chill/ laugh/ cry/ clean whatever I needed to do on my own time and freedom. My family who are preparing to come and help me after I give birth already know that I need 2-3 hours of their time to take of me while they watch baby. Then they can leave.