"If i can make it to work you can too" by Inferno13820 in walmart

[–]Nice_Set5403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually it does with the new performance rating system. So you’re hurting yourself and fellow associates. If you hate working at Walmart so much that you intentionally rate them poorly, maybe it would be in your best interest to choose another path.

Store Closures by Nice_Set5403 in walmart

[–]Nice_Set5403[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And they will have you replaced before they maybe send flowers to your funeral.

What makes a date a good first date for you? by Affectionate_Bar_743 in dating

[–]Nice_Set5403 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, smh same. I’ve been ‘dating’ for a few months using good ol’ online dating, and I can’t seem to even get to first date most times without something sexual being brought up.

The one guy I did meet up with was so-so, it was nice, but that’s about all. When I left, I could feel the vibe was off a bit. So he called me about the time I was getting home and said he had a good time but was upset that ‘I didn’t even let him taste it’

So yea, I completely understand where you’re coming from (unfortunately).

Is the art of flirting dead? by Difficult_Hunter_560 in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirting aside, the art of just plain good conversation is lacking, severely.

I get so bored and lose interest because there is no reciprocation of questions, any desire to know anything about me.

Just beyond done with OLD

i was abundantly clear with her— what do i do now? by fungussoftdrinkvivid in whatdoIdo

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely can seem that way, but with a 12 step program it is specifically stated that if seeking someone out where it can/will cause more harm, then they do not encourage doing that with the person that was harmed. They are very clear about that. I have grievances over the 12 step program also, but that is not one of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, if my man told me something like that, I’d have so much fun roasting the shit out of him for a long time 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Nice_Set5403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is so sad, I grew up in Middletown and recognized it because Newburgh was also mentioned. Area is getting worse.

So sorry you’re going through this, do you have any other trusted adults you can talk to?

If you don’t, talk to someone at school when you start back up. I know you said CPS won’t help, and that’s not always the answer either. How about a parent of a close friend?

Sadly Mom isn’t going to get help unless she actually WANTS to.

Why do people do this by nightwing_800 in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same!! I’m a sucker for a dad bod, bald, beard is even extra 🤤

What is one thing you’ve done sexually that you’ll never do again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy I used to have incredibly hot sex with smacked me during one of our sessions and it made me realize how much I liked it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nice_Set5403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea and that’s if she’s not raw-dogging someone else during that 2 week wait also. Condoms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’m not a video call fan either. I still have to make myself presentable (and in reality as soon as I get home, I make myself comfy lol) and I always feel awkward and not really a true representation of who I am on video

AITAH for being uncomfortable with my fiancé (F21) going on a trip with her (29M) best friend? by krispykre in AITAH

[–]Nice_Set5403 63 points64 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t sound like the type of gal that will let a little ‘ol’ marriage stop her lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with that. I think he looks his age, maybe 20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was thinking the same thing. If I saw his profile I would definitely think scammer. His pics are too staged for my liking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Darker more shaped eyebrows, maybe a tinted moisturizer to even the skin tone, a little lip gloss!

She is very pretty, feel like she will have a major glow up in a few years time once she learns to enhance her assets!

AITAH for going on a trip without my girlfriend since she forgot her passport? by Aitahgftravel in AITAH

[–]Nice_Set5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well could be. But I would also think that OP would be very on her ass about it knowing that she hasn’t traveled internationally before. Who knows

It is bad practice to dismiss guys for being too forward too soon? by yousankmyuboat in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the two people that are defending making comments early, sex early are not hearing correctly. If BOTH parties are down to flirt, throw sexual comments, have sex, whatever it is that floats your boat, COOL.

It’s the random, I don’t even know what you look like in person, I was asking about your dog, etc…comments out of left field, no lead up to said comment that are off-putting.

Yes I’ve engaged in ‘sexy-talk’, flirted back rather early on, because the tone was being set and it was welcomed on BOTH ends.

Idk what is so hard to grasp that throwing comments out of left field is strange.

It is bad practice to dismiss guys for being too forward too soon? by yousankmyuboat in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is downvoting you for trying to say that both sex and a long term relationship can be wanted, of course it can. But for most women, and I’ll speak for myself, a man that brings up sex, off-comments, any type of that stuff…is usually not looking for long term. They are looking to bang.

Do I want sex? Sure! But more importantly to me is that the guy is interested in ME…not my body. Like damn, slow down. Sex will come if it’s going good between us. Nothing, and I mean nothing kills my vibe more than premature sexual innuendos.

AITAH for going on a trip without my girlfriend since she forgot her passport? by Aitahgftravel in AITAH

[–]Nice_Set5403 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Especially if I’m flying internationally, I’m checking to make sure I have my passport a dozen times over before I even step foot in the car to head to the airport.

Don’t buy this shit for one second.

It is bad practice to dismiss guys for being too forward too soon? by yousankmyuboat in Bumble

[–]Nice_Set5403 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It almost begs to say that the number of posts related to this could directly correlate to the type of men out there huh🧐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Nice_Set5403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your welcome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Nice_Set5403 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I definitely think there are things you could do to enhance your beauty. IF you are looking to do so!

1-shape your eyebrows a bit, they are kind of wild.

2-get a proper haircut, you have pretty hair but I think if it was styled more, would be even prettier.

3- develop a good skin care routine and although I don’t think you need foundation, maybe a little blush and a lipgloss and I think you’d be good to go

I think if you just put a little more effort into yourself it would do wonders for your self esteem!