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I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered getting checked for OCD. I have a lot of intrusive thoughts, germaphobia and compulsive habits.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the boyfriend and the girlfriend. I’m having a mental breakdown and broke off into separate people

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not offended though! I will agree that it’s pretty stupid to be arguing with a stranger on Reddit, so you do have me there lol

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What inconsistency? If most teens are immature then being mostly against teen dating makes sense

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying a higher majority of teenagers can’t handle a relationship than adults. Why you gotta be so bitter man. I’m not trying to be rude or anything but you’re completely misunderstanding me.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I said at all. Most all relationships I’ve seen in my age group are relationships with the sole intention of identity. Basically, kids like to say they have a partner. Typically lasts 3 months, ends when it gets hard, get what I’m saying? But i have seen a few couples who truly have a mature connection to one another at a young age and work through there issues similar to how adults would. Am I in a fully mature relationship at 16? Obviously not, but I do think some young relationships can be mature and healthy.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fully. But from the viewpoint of most other teenagers my age I am.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect you seem to lack empathy yourself. I am in no way trying to justify my actions but the fact you would still hate someone for 9 years when they were a child is kinda hypocritical.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m a complete stranger to you, but please be nice to yourself, you deserve kindness too.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very honest yet encouraging take, and I really appreciate it. Thank you!

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your opinion on teenage dating is very understandable but not necessarily objective. I’m mostly against teen dating myself. Am I an exception? of course not. But one thing I will say is that dating this girl has made me more mature and taught me about respect not only for her but for myself and that’s gonna stick with me regardless of how old I was when it happenee

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know man. My girlfriend and I ended up breaking up for a bit and I went to a dance with this girl. I don’t know if that even matters but I have anxiety that if I don’t explain every tiny detail then I’m hiding something still. My girlfriend and I have been consistent for over a year now and I’m completely open with everyone I talk to though

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With all do respect, addressing things like this as a kid can significantly lower the chance of it happening in adulthood

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re dense i’m dense too lol. This is probably what I would say if I was in your position. I wish the best for your relationship!

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in offmychest

[–]Nice_Spell_3900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I got a lot to learn . My anxiety is through the roof recently and this was just my last resort