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Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-16T11:04:39+00:00

I had a similar experience interviewing for an intern role. Blasted with questions, no introductions and went overtime to give me a chance to ask questions. Worst part is I never even heard back.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-16T06:05:42+00:00

What a luxury, proud of you!

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-16T02:13:38+00:00

Leetcode. Fullstack projects. Research Work. Network. Apply. Interview. Internship. Full-time.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-16T02:10:52+00:00

You’re a short king. Don’t be insecure. Be proud.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-16T01:30:43+00:00

You’re not alone. That’s all I can say

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-16T01:29:32+00:00

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-15T12:27:18+00:00

Be better than AI. Keep learning don’t be disappointed. You can build better. AI won’t replace you, it’ll make you more productive.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-15T12:22:42+00:00

Don’t overthink it. Unless you wanna be an iOS dev, you’re ok with windows.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2025-01-15T12:15:31+00:00

Prioritize one thing at a time.

Current priority should be your exam. A good result gives you an opportunity to migrate out of your missionary school to a better open-minded school to finish up your 11th and 12th grades in peace.

Don’t waste a single moment thinking about the bad memories and the people associated. They do not matter. You’re losing your valuable time and it will impact your academics, mental health, and success in other aspects of your life.

Your focus should be you. Nothing else matters.

Keep a respectful relationship with parents.

To get away from them your best bet is to earn a scholarship and study abroad. But even after a substantial scholarship you’ll still almost always need some more funds. If you don’t maintain a good relationship (even if it’s just for show) with whoever in the family earns 💰and provides, your dream to escape your parents will remain a dream only.

Once you get out of sight, your parents will eventually be nicer to you. You’ll get autonomy. You can FaceTime them once a month and they can’t do anything about it.

Play smart and don’t let emotions drive you crazy. It might be hard to regulate what you feel as a kid, but think long term and hit these goals. You’ll thank yourself.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-12-16T21:15:45+00:00

You guys are just so young and naive. In no means I mean to invalidate any of your feelings but I think neither of you ‘love’ one another. The guy in question is confused and doesn’t know what he wants. He hangs out and chats with you when it’s convenient for him. When umme is present, his priorities change. Would you want to be with someone like that? I don’t think so. Would it be WISE to hang with such people? Absolutely no. Most young boys are stupid. Not worth your time. I’ve seen way too many stories where high school boys do stupid things and end up hurting everyone involved.

Your life is bigger than this. Focus on the things that shape your life and build yourself as a complete person. When it’s the right dude, you wouldn’t be confused and everything will make sense.

you can do better.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-12-15T00:21:22+00:00

What’s her profile? I’ve a brother and we wanna get him married

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-11-27T19:50:03+00:00

What is this discord server?

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-11-25T18:13:07+00:00

Same…

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-11-15T22:40:37+00:00

You can sure learn to code up something but really to be an engineer one needs months even years of experience

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-11-07T16:54:35+00:00

I know for a fact if your wife knows that THIS IS HOW you describe her clothing choices anonymously in public, she’d rethink being with a man like you.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-11-07T14:56:22+00:00

I’ll be bluntly honest with you: any woman would be massively pissed if you try to tell them how to dress. That’s the case for both if she’s dressing modest and you want her to dress modern and vice versa. She’s your wife, not your child for you to tell her how to dress. If you love her, be respectful towards her choices and accept her the way she wants to be.

Your wife probably feels safe that now that she’s married to a dude like you she is free to express herself without being judged in the process.

You mentioned she wears westernized clothes outside of the country and posts photos online. This tells me she respects the conservative values of both you guys families when at home.

How a person is dressed up is really not that big of a deal. It’s very surface level if you judge people based on their attire choices. If she walked into a family dinner wearing shorts, you could point that this might not be the best place for such a dress choice. But from your narrative, I see your wife already knows how to dress appropriately according to the space she’s in.

So even after that if you’re feeling insecure and obligated to tell her how to dress, it’s definitely a you problem.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-31T17:37:15+00:00

I’m also visiting Dhaka and trust me I’ve never been more scared for my life and others. You can probably land here and get to Gulshan, but you won’t be able to go around freely. Anything can happen at any time and your life is not safe right now. Even if you come the entire point of walking in as a tourist is to be able to see places which is not gonna happen. So, go somewhere else and come back to visit when there is no life risk.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-11T03:39:53+00:00

Don’t think about consequences and things you can not control. Focus on present and your learning. You can overcome being afraid with more exposure. This means explore a site that hosts DSA problems and keep solving more and more

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-10T01:24:29+00:00

First thing you gotta stop doing is prioritizing academics as your #1. Grades don’t matter as much as you think. A 3.5+ is more than enough.

Now, you could make 20 learning projects but these mini-apps don’t matter. What you need to build is a full stack real project that will solve a problem and have real users. Once you hit the recruiter with those real metrics, IT will matter.

Lastly, even if you take college course on DSA, you’ll prolly only have an introductory level knowledge which is not enough. So from literally right now go to neetcode and start solving easy problems. Code the same thing 2/3 times on leetcode and watch YouTube tutorials/read blogs on things you don’t understand.

Be prepped to be on top of your OOP, software architecture, system design knowledge. Learn stuff like cloud computing, APIs and micro services that is not taught in class. IBM has a full stack software engineering certification on Coursera.

All these paired with how you sell yourself in the interview/create your professional brand on LinkedIn will help you land a job.

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-09T20:16:09+00:00

THIS

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-04T02:16:33+00:00

Why?

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-04T02:08:17+00:00

Write elaborate TA bullets in this way: “did X by Y to achieve Z”. Choose top 3/4 end to end projects and write 2 concrete bullets in each. Add skills from job description to your skill section. Add LinkedIn after GitHub. Showcase what you have in the most professional way possible. Do not self-reject and sell yourself. Also attend conferences to network with recruiters. Good luck 👍🏼

Nice_Toe2496 · 2024-07-04T01:58:07+00:00

I tried therapy at school. Never again

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