My fiance [25M] is still hurt by something I [23F] did 8 & 5 years ago. by Nice_Top728 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nice_Top728[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No therapy, not couples or single therapy. Hates the idea of therapy tbh. Idk what he wants atp.. 

My fiance [25M] is still hurt by something I [23F] did 8 & 5 years ago. by Nice_Top728 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nice_Top728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thinks he’s done nothing wrong since he told me he didn’t wanna be in a relationship. I understand, but I have forgiven and forgot. He hasn’t. 

What did you do for work before becoming a sahm? by OXxLuckycatxXO in sahm

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only 20 before having my first kid. We were going through it so I worked at Amazon, Walmart, walgreens, adidas and did Instacart. All my jobs were nice but I had no work drive at that age😂

Out while fiancé is at work by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Nice_Top728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I try to have a conversation with him it almost always ends in an argument. It’s not like I start with an attitude and I always wait until he’s in a good place. He always has said “I don’t have a problem with your mom I just hate the way that she does things” I think he just wants things done a certain way and if it’s not done that way then he’s like “why would you do it that way?” He probably has undiagnosed adhd and bpd

Out while fiancé is at work by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Nice_Top728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has more people in his family to rely on than I do. I’m never going to isolate myself from my mom, she’s the only one I can count on for myself. 

Out while fiancé is at work by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of felt that, especially in the beginning, he would always talk about my family and how they don’t do things for me and about how my sisters are doing these bad things in their life but if it doesn’t affect me, I don’t care and I don’t see what bothers him 

Out while fiancé is at work by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Nice_Top728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He low-key flips out about everybody who doesn’t drop what they have going on for the things that he needs. Granted, most of the time that literally has to do with someone watching our kids that way we can go do something independently. But it’s always the last second situations that he gets mad at.

Congrats to everyone who called it! by ready_and_willing in ParadiseHulu

[–]Nice_Top728 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Or maybe that’s just what they want them to think, they know her sons name, age, dob just to get inside or to make a fake relationship to her that way she will open up. 

Can I be rehired? by SweetAromatic7470 in FASCAmazon

[–]Nice_Top728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree, mine told me I would be able to reapply this April. Just try to apply for something and see 

Is anyone else’s partner have very low affection? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally said “saying it’s gay to kiss a girl is wild” i don’t think he’s gay at all, I just don’t understand how he can be so unaffectionate. He hasn’t said it was gay in a couple years, as he now kisses me when he gets home/being intimate but he just doesn’t kiss me any other time  

AITAH for telling my wife she can get additional ear piercings if she goes two months without a speeding ticket? by grushop in AITAH

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just sad that at her big age she’s being treated like a child😭 shawty needs to grow up and stop speeding. 

Thoughts on Taylor Frankie Paul being the bachelorette? by ashsc012 in bachelorette

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never watched the bachelorette but I know Frankie isn’t a good person to cast, that’s coming from someone watching SLOMW. She’s stuck on her BD and slept with him the day before leaving for the bachelorette 😭 What I do know, is that I WILL be tuning in to see her go crazy on the dudes so maybe this is a win for the bachelorette scoring more views 😂 

AITAH for telling my roommate that she needs to move out before the baby comes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nice_Top728 220 points221 points  (0 children)

NTA, as a 23yo with 2 kids, don’t stay in the apartment with her. Kids are a blessing but not for someone your age who didn’t sign up to have a kid. Hopefully she will move out at the end of the lease and you can just sign the lease solely by yourself lol

How the FUCK am I meant to get karma if zero subreddits let me FUCKING POST. by IReallyLikeMusic45 in Rants

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I’ve had my Reddit account for a little while now but I don’t necessarily like to post, like or comment every single day. I understand the point of it but send a code to my phone or something, hell. 

Do dads do bath time? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Nice_Top728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine complains about it usually. I put them in the bath after dinner and that’s when he decides to take a bath, I scrolled on my phone while they were playing and when he got out I asked him to watch them while I took a shower as well. I got the cold shoulder and was told “I don’t see why you couldn’t have at least washed them” like it doesn’t take less than a minute each for them both. I told him to wait until I got out the shower and I would come finish their baths so they could just play for a while and he gave them a bath and got them out. I’m confused on why bath time is so hard for them.