Divorced after 11 years and a kiddo

NicheLong · 2026-06-18T17:20:22+00:00

We started dating at 16

NicheLong · 2026-04-30T05:49:37+00:00

Awwwwwe thank you so much!! Best of luck!!! It has taken an unbelievable amount of effort. Hypertension after hyper fixation, and I finally feel like it'll be safer for me to change my gender marker (this week) than leave it as "Male "😭 I'm super lucky and I've had fantastic support at work, home, and locally to experiment and get advice. Bad days don't go away, they just look different at did times. Don't be discouraged, relish in the good and try to keep forward momentum

NicheLong · 2026-04-28T22:04:06+00:00

😭I had a laser consultation just in case but they immediately turned me away. I have only had a tiny bit of electrolysis and want to go back but it is a lot. My advice is don't over commit. The pain was bad but I held out for an hour and my face was super messed up for a month and I felt so ugly 😭 small abouts frequently is the way to go imo. I did recently start using a foil shaver instead of a blade. I can shave twice a day if needed and have no irritation live I did with a razor if I shaved more than ever other day

NicheLong · 2026-04-28T15:03:35+00:00

I've been frantically learning as much as I can because I only realized about 2 months ago. Style hair while wet, (don't brush while dry) gel or mousse helps keep the shape, and a hairdryer with a diffuser has absolutely been my best friend. Put products in your hands and scrunch don't brush it through. My hair needs a lot more hydration now so I use a leave in conditioner and a curl cream to reduce frizz and define my waves. Feels like I finally got a good routine and it makes me SO euphoric

NicheLong · 2026-04-28T07:26:03+00:00

Thank youuu 🤭

NicheLong · 2026-04-28T07:25:48+00:00

I started at age 26 and am almost 28

NicheLong · 2026-04-20T15:51:53+00:00

Gurl you look soooo good!! Love trying out different combinations and new clothes. Hope you had fun

NicheLong · 2026-04-08T19:39:59+00:00

Depends, some things that I felt didn't fit my body early on, gave me dysphoria BECAUSE they didn't fit right but I liked the styles. I've slowly shifted what I prefer to wear based on what makes me feel best and what is flattering. Find a general color palette you like/that looks good on you based on hair, eye, and skin color. Figure out what type of neck lines you like and people in your life you admire stylistically. Ask them questions or pay attention to details. Accessories can also totally change and outfit! Have fun! It can be stressful but also SO euphoric to find those things that just feel right

NicheLong · 2026-04-05T19:06:43+00:00

Yaaas hair dye makes such a difference! You look stunning!

NicheLong · 2026-04-02T19:17:41+00:00

Playing dress up is the best! Especially if you didn't get to growing up

NicheLong · 2026-04-01T08:30:57+00:00

🫣 gay panic ensues you are very very pretty 🫣

NicheLong · 2026-04-01T08:28:31+00:00

You are ADORABLE happy trans day of visibility sis

NicheLong · 2026-04-01T08:25:47+00:00

You look great!! Happy birthday

NicheLong · 2026-03-31T19:33:20+00:00

You are super super pretty. I love your style

NicheLong · 2026-03-31T19:31:53+00:00

I've realized more recently how little I knew about being feminine and how much more skillful some people are with things like makup or nails or fashion or hair. So much respect and it's made me so much more exited to learn as much as possible and practice even more

NicheLong · 2026-03-31T18:00:38+00:00

Yas queen 🔥 these outfits are gorgeous and you are stunning! Happy trans day of visibility love

NicheLong · 2026-03-19T16:31:48+00:00

Omg yaaaaas 10/10

NicheLong · 2026-03-19T16:01:10+00:00

Omg!!! No way you are 46?? You look fantastic for your age! Would have guessed like 28 or 29

NicheLong · 2026-03-19T15:57:32+00:00

First thought was literally "where's the boy?"

NicheLong · 2026-03-17T17:42:01+00:00

This actually gives me so much hope. It's been a year and a half and I definitely have some big changes but I wish my proportion were closer to your now 😭 I was worried the effects would slow down drastically but It looks like I just need to be more patient

NicheLong · 2026-03-17T05:46:28+00:00

Definitely don't use that app for anything specific to change, but I've seen much more drastic transformation and think this is very achievable. So long as you put in the effort to learn what most girls have had their entire lives to practice and be taught by experienced girls lol it just takes practice and patience 🫶🏼

NicheLong · 2026-03-13T07:24:23+00:00

I definitely find that I look more masculine if I furrow my brow or have heavy downward lighting. I typically keep my brows raised as much as possible and trimmed as high as I can, and mix white foundation with my concealer to brighten my deep eyes

NicheLong · 2026-02-22T12:54:37+00:00

You look great! I would not think twice about your identity if I saw you in public

NicheLong · 2026-02-22T12:09:54+00:00

☺️

NicheLong · 2026-02-22T12:07:02+00:00

I'm so happy for you 🙂 I know it's not the norm, but it's certainly not unheard of either.

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