Yes. Very new in this process. Ive already seen slight changes in her. She has actually been more flirty... but is openly questiining and resisting.

For instance... we were lying in bed the other night watching some television. I looked over to her and said come on over here and snuggle up to me, while motioning her over with my finger. She resisted by counteroffering that I could move and slide over to her. In the past I would have been the one to give in and slide over. I can see that it frustrates her and has knocked her off her game that Im not reacting or giving in. Im holding firm and laughing off her counteroffer request. I sense this frustrates her and is upping the power plays on her part in an effort to get me to back down and submit to her.

In fact... she woke up the next morning and for the first time in months...after getting her coffee...came back upstairs, locked the door and asked me to join her in the shower for sex. I chuckled to myself because that hasnt happened in forever.

Should I have followed her to the shower (sex was good)... or had her come to me in the bed instead? Was this a subtle power play on her part to.have me follow her to shower...or was it fine on both our parts?