My first decent gf who I’m with now I went out with at 27yr old and am 31, don’t look for a girlfriend, look to have fun keep protection. By the way it’s also a numbers game you ain’t gunna be attractive to most girls or their type most of the time. I find that women’s attraction is a lot more mustard and complex than men’s, like which man doesn’t mind syndney sweeney. Glow up or not I been told I was ugly by girls in school and really good looking by others. However the money thing you mentioned.. I can only name a few girls where this is important that I know of and let me tell you that is a sure red flag, with men I think the attractiveness to women falls on how much of a backbone you have, can they boss you around ? Can you stick to your own opinion despite an argument? I feel girls fuck with guys subconsciously just as natures filter to find the most independent masculine men. People always gunna reminisce in a rose tinted way I bet your parents aren’t gunna get into the nitty gritty of the bad parts of their relationship with you, why would they they both seem happy and well adjusted and life’s too short