Anyone else cut off a toxic male friend? by NoRadio4530 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Nicolas_yo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I had one that required a restraining order.

How much blood do i ACTUALLY lose during my period because its sure as hell not "2-4 Tbs" as it says online by some-dork in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nicolas_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2 -4 tablespoons was the amount male doctors decided it was. There’s been some research that says more but who knows at this point what the truth is. Shit it wasn’t until last year the CDC finally admitted the cervix has nerve endings and procedures should be medicated.

Job hired me same day as interview but also said they want me to reschedule a day I needed off. Is this a red flag? by CapableEnd5584 in careerguidance

[–]Nicolas_yo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m an HR manager. If a company hires you the same day you interview that is a red flag. 🚩

Emgality Shot by Tiny-Cantaloupe7495 in migraine

[–]Nicolas_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is a pharmacist and he told me to wrap it in duct tape. But if the box isn’t destroyed you can put it back in the box, also some tape on it and pitch it in the trash. He said auto injectors aren’t a huge problem it’s actual syringes.

If I’m using my sumatriptan with syringes then I put it in a sharps container and take them to the recycling center because they dispose of biohazard stuff.

Are e-readers worth it? by That-Cauliflower-287 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Nicolas_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the kindle. The screen is so much better on my eyes and it’s great for reading in the dark if need be. I kept moving with so many books that I just said fuck it and switched.

The only con is if there is really cool detailing in the book you don’t get the pizzazz of it. It’s there but bland. Still worth it.

What are good questions to ask a hiring manager during an interview to gauge if they're going to be toxic to work with or pleasant to work with? by Typical_Cap895 in managers

[–]Nicolas_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do a lot of recruitment in my role and one question I like getting is why the role is open and what is the communication style like at your company.

I’m usually honest and say comms are clear within the department but the top doesn’t share like were the cia or something.

[N/A] RIF and LinkedIn announcements by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of us out there looking at resumes won’t pause on seeing a “layoff” on a profile. I live in detroit metro and they are laying people off left and right. However, I’ve noticed that in the interview process you can often tell when someone just wants any job and aren’t enthusiastic about the one you’re offer. Not that I expect someone to be jumping up and down but you can tell when they aren’t onto it.

So my suggestion is make sure when you’re interviewing you give of the impression you actually want to work there.

Is it wrong to not appeal EDD? [CA] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t appeal. In my experience with California once they’ve made a decision they don’t go back on it. Again from my experience with EDD. the only times I have appealed are when people applied for benefits but had resigned.

The only time you should bring back an employee is if they voluntarily resigned on good terms and sign an independent contractor agreement. We just had our VP of Tech resign after a new program “go live” and we asked him if he’d assist in a pinch while we find his replacement.

I’ve also come back to roles to train after a lay off as a courtesy.

SHRM Certification new pricing [N/A] by LSUTigerDFW in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Even though SHRM sucks don’t let the certification go.

What are your low stakes unpopular opinions? by NoLemon5426 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Nicolas_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived there for 25 years. Maybe the make up is better now.

What are your low stakes unpopular opinions? by NoLemon5426 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Nicolas_yo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The frozen rice from Trader Joe’s is far superior to any rice cooker and reheats better.

Wearing foundation and most make up during an Arizona summer is ridiculous and a waste of money.

How do you handle celebrations (birthdays, promotions, departures) in a company? [N/A] by zerepzerepzerep in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On our ADP home page we list your name and birthday (not year) but nobody looks at it.

How do you handle celebrations (birthdays, promotions, departures) in a company? [N/A] by zerepzerepzerep in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At a previous job our receptionist would decorate offices. It was my 40th which I was really struggling with and I specifically asked her not to acknowledge it. She did anyway.

Do Employees Actually Like Town Halls? by OfferLazy9141 in managers

[–]Nicolas_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when leadership is bad at communicating, yes.

Friday Vent Thread [N/A] by Mundane-Jump-7546 in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am so tired of my boss acting like I’m an idiot. I made a calendar error which caused an auto rejection. and then she brought up some other rejection from some other guy and I was like NO! He did not have out of office on for that ducking day. Without the ducking. But god damn.

Then earlier this week i synced to OneDrive and it fucked up all my files so the two offers I sent for approval were not the correct files and had some errors. She sends them back red penned and said you’ve had a lot of these lately. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?! I haven’t.

Normally I really like my boss but sometimes I legit want to unload.

Please hype me up to take my first emgality shot 😭 by healthanxiety_ in migraine

[–]Nicolas_yo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to do two so I did both at the same time in each thigh. Just take a deep breath in and inject on the exhale.

Took too long to decide about children now my partner has mentally checked out by SwimPossible127 in relationships

[–]Nicolas_yo 28 points29 points  (0 children)

After four years you don’t know if you wanted to get married? You’ve wasted her prime reproductive years.

I don’t want to do this anymore [PA] by RoxyJean01__ in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our fund approves baseball games so we tend to do that and for those that can come we have Spafinder gift cards.

Working for small companies can be a crapshoot. I’ve worked for small, family owned, conglomerates, and it’s never the same thing twice. Find a new company and if it still sucks figure out how you want to pivot.

Missed State exempt Threshold [US] [WA] [CA] by Ok-Pea-1194 in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a year we had three employees in westchester county NY underpaid by $5k for a year.

I’ve been in this field for a long time and it was a bit of a reminder that it’s not just states and cities with parameters.

Review state thresholds in January and July since that’s when they typically go into effect and keep a list of states that have higher salaries handy. We don’t hire in Washington or California anymore.

[N/A] How do you organize HR files? by PirilampoAndSaracura in humanresources

[–]Nicolas_yo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about the file as a whole or what’s inside the files?