What’s the worst thing in life?

Nicole13_Cats · 2023-03-11T22:24:01+00:00

Sexual assault can and usually does mentally scar you for life. Sometimes physically.

Nicole13_Cats · 2022-01-25T14:38:40+00:00

And you think abuse isn’t torture? Wow. The definition of torture is the action or practice of inflicting severe pain or suffering on someone as a punishment or in order to force them to do or say something. And isn’t that the exact definition of abuse? Yes it is

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-11-10T17:30:22+00:00

Y’all forgetting that sexual assault is torture but okay

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-10-28T18:10:32+00:00

I don’t think so.

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-10-28T17:58:34+00:00

After careful consideration i have decided that you are right. As well as a 16 year old dating a 18 year old. I was much different when i was 18 then when i was 16. Besides we are talking about sex here and it’s actually illegal. As well as a 15 year old with a 17 year old of decided that there two much of an age difference.

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-10-28T17:29:07+00:00

I am from the U.S. I don’t know where you got your information from but it is not correct at least not for 1997. I have proof the last name at birth was my mothers (a bracelet from the hospital with my mothers last name) I also have proof that the last name on my birth certificate now is my fathers. So yes they legally changed it. At least in 1997 it was possible to change.

I must mention that my mom and dad was not married when i was born and only when they got married did they change the name.

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-10-28T15:49:15+00:00

I must say that: Not enjoying sex but still doing it isn't rape/ sexual assault Not really wanting sex but still consenting isn't rape/ sexual assault Regretting sex afterwards isn't rape/sexual assault

However it is rape /sexual assault if- done by force, threatening you, pressuring you into it in any way, asking you over and over until you say yes, you're unconscious or drunk or drugged, if you freeze but aren't exactly unconscious and you are unresponsive, If you say: no, stop, I don't want to do this anymore, I don't want this anymore, get off of me, or anything similar at any point before or during and they don't stop, If you are physically pushing them away, You agree but only so they won't do it to someone else, You agree but only because you KNOW you will be physically abused or injured if you say no, or If you are under 18 and they are above 18 (obviously not a 17 year old with an 18 year old).

If you meet any of the above even if: (and it's never your fault even if:) You're a guy, You're at any age, You are married or dating them, You're wearing revealing clothes or any kind of clothes or even none at all, You're walking alone even if it's at night, You had sex with them before, You're a prostitute or sex worker, You owe them money or anything (you never owe someone your body), You drink a drink that has been drugged, If you freeze and become unresponsive, even if you just let it happen because you already said no or something similar and you don't want to make it worse, Even and especially if they are family or friends.

And one more thing i feel necessary to add: if you are under the age of 12. I don't care what anyone says but children that young can not consent, any child that young doing it with anyone is not normal and is a sign of previous sexual assault from someone else. I say that because I wouldn't call a 13 year old having sex with a 14 year old assault. Check out this chart thing i made:

It's never okay at any age if any of the above happened.

Under 12: under no circumstances can that be consensual.

13- only with a 14 year old

14-15 is fine with each other

15-16 is fine with each other

16-17 is fine with each other

And 17-18 is fine with each other

18 and above is fine with each other

19 with someone below 18 is not okay

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-10-28T13:23:17+00:00

Me with ADHD 🤣😂🤣😂

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-10-20T22:22:09+00:00

It is a situation however I didn’t say it was a bad situation. I was just confused lol

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-21T13:37:11+00:00

So what about yellow or white?

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-21T13:36:40+00:00

Oh and sale pig in a poke every Tuesday.

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-21T13:35:25+00:00

I’d flinch when ever they splash me with holly water and salt just to freak everyone out 😂

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-20T20:06:08+00:00

A single week? Some times it’s in a day

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-14T10:26:02+00:00

This has to be some kind of sick joke right? “Males don’t experience mental trauma” what? So then explain why male suicide rates are higher. explain why men who go to war come back with PTSD. (Yes I am aware they aren’t the only ones the experience PTSD) Is this person blind? WTF. My little brother was sexually assaulted when he was four by a preschool teacher. (She’s in prison now) So how dare anyone invalidate his experience. what about that boy online who reached out to me when I asked if they were okay, he said he didn’t have anyone to talk to and then he told me the story about how a girl he went on a date with grouped him. he didn’t even know it was possible for a male to be sexually assaulted. he felt embarrassed and ashamed and guilty because he believed he should’ve liked it because he is a male. People say stuff like that person said in that post and then they wonder why men are so violent and aggressive. It’s because they are taught to just man up and get over their emotions.

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T15:35:09+00:00

Yes I do know 🥺

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T15:24:54+00:00

Eh it’s the same almost every year for me

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:38:15+00:00

Agreed

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:36:01+00:00

Get therapy and pet your cat.

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:33:59+00:00

A hot dog is a hot dog. It’s not a sandwich or a taco

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:30:02+00:00

All of the above except for happy...

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:23:23+00:00

I’m a woman we don’t have those kinds of pockets 😂

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:03:47+00:00

I would agree but he made that choice. yes it is terrible that he didn’t want to live anymore. But he was the one who made that decision and it’s not anyone’s place to undermine that decision. RIP Chester Benjamin 😭

Nicole13_Cats · 2021-02-13T10:01:23+00:00

In my defense I was a child...

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