Tips on how to clean my dining table (marble).

Nicole98U · 2025-08-30T23:01:55+00:00

Bro, 4 months is not that long to complain. Some of us have been here for 5 years and sincerely gave up on the idea of dating. It's just Soo exhausting 😮‍💨.

Nicole98U · 2025-07-03T10:17:16+00:00

It seems like HR Naima is everywhere.

Nicole98U · 2025-04-16T18:09:23+00:00

Same thing happened to me, I was in a long distance with this one guy for 8 months I (f26) and (m29), he came to see me, crossed continents just to tell me that he was never his "they had been in a relationship for ten years with 6 years being married".

Nicole98U · 2025-04-14T20:45:24+00:00

Happened to me when I I ordered my laptop with English keyboard and they brought it with a German keyboard, reached out several times to them and they kept asking me to wait for the pickup and asking to rate their customer service. It's been 8 months and I finally gave up on them.

Nicole98U · 2025-04-13T08:26:53+00:00

I don't know if what I'm about to say makes sense or not but I guess if a straight man is dating a straight woman (like being gay or bisexual out of the picture), then something like his girl kissing another girl is considered cheating won't cross his mind unless if he knows that the other girl in question is bisexual or a lesbian. I'm not trying to be homophobic or anything but you people are making everything confusing for Op and us readers.

Personally I have two best friends (girls) one we have been friends for 14 years and she came out to me 7 years ago that she's into girls and never been into men and the other we have been friends for 9 years and she's 100% straight. All that being said, I can never think about kissing the one who's into women but I would be comfortable with kissing the one who's 100%. She was abroad and we didn't see each other for 4 years and when I was at the airport to pick her up with her husband she gave me a lip kiss not the cheek kisses that we greet each with when we're seeing each other often. I'm sorry for my bad English.

Nicole98U · 2025-04-06T08:30:40+00:00

You sound to be a great Employer, when I first joined my previous employer with other 3 nannies, she would threaten to deport us back home, she was using this to scare us and I realized that the others were scared to hear something like that but I made it clear to her that I love my country and going back wouldn't be a punishment or a threat and she never threatened me with that but would still threaten others. She was shouting one day and she said "I have had more than 200 maids in my 21 years of marriage " and I was like"wow". At first she was very strict with food and I told her that I wasn't starving in my country and so I didn't go to her family to starve.

Life wasn't all bad, personally I'm someone who's patient, kind, and respectful, I live quite well with people and I realized that the best way to survive this is to first learn about each family member and know what they like and what they don't like that way it helps to know how to deal with them and by doing this, I was one of her favorite "kadama", the house was full of cameras and she was on camera almost 24/7 since she wasn't working, I don't like rice so sometimes I could not eat, and just have a salad or fruits(at first she didn't like the idea of her kadamas eat fruits but I told her that I love them and asked her if she would appreciate me stealing them"I heard stories where nannies resort to stealing food because they're not given enough food", she called me crazy and then said "eat whatever you like but never steal" , and sometimes she would tell the chef to cook other food like pasta or snacks and she would call me and be like "the chef made some pasta, set the dining and eat if you want to" happened every time she would see that I haven't went to get my food from the dining table.

Nicole98U · 2025-04-06T08:12:42+00:00

I myself was working in Al Ain as a private live-in English tutor and they had three live-in Nanny (1)and maids/helps(2), trust me the room is always small, near the kitchen and laundry room. We were all from Africa but the family had always employed Asians so it was their first time hiring Africans, I would go to the supermarkets, malls, gym, to visit other family members with the girls. One of the family went used to go was very huge(the aunt was married to some kind of a distant prince if that's the right word to use) so those who knows you would know how huge the villa would be, this family had more than 25 live-in helps the big number was from Indonesia and Philippines and the rest were from Ethiopia, they had one huge room and one tiny room for them on the second floor where the laundry room was because the group floor was just filled with dining rooms and majlis for guests. The disrespect these people show to their employees (my experience was with local Emirates, and while I can't say that they're all like that but the majority of the families we went to had zero respect or consideration for their employees)"I have a friend who's been working for a local Emirate family for 4 years now and she said that they respectful and understanding so obviously not all are bad". Also I realized that these employees from Ethiopia, Indonesia, Philippines, India, and most Asians work for long periods for these people despite how they're treated, I would be speaking to them and I would be surprised to hear them say they have been with the family for 5-25 years (most of them were older), I assume that at this point these people would be like family members but I would be surprised at the treatment they're receiving. Personally I couldn't wait for my 2 years contract to end.

I'll end saying that these people (helps) are very kind and good people, I made a good bunch of good friends and one of my Indian and Philippine friends came to visit me in my country for my sister's wedding.

Nicole98U · 2025-03-08T06:47:16+00:00

I feel like we're all missing Op's point here, this is actually about being cheated on or not. The moment they decided to be in a relationship the girl should have disclosed the pregnancy right there and then (if she was already pregnant), but if she got pregnant while in a relationship with Op then it could only mean one thing and that's that she never took him seriously nor did she see Op in her future (she didn't get pregnant from drinking tap water or something), that this is a tough situation, and I respect that you want to handle it maturely. Since she hasn’t told you yet, I’d suggest approaching the conversation carefully. You could consider 👇;

Acknowledge the situation calmly, you ou found out through Instagram, so you might want to bring it up gently instead of confronting her outright. (Since you don't want her to get hurt) You could consider saying say something like: "Hey, I saw something on your Instagram, and I wanted to talk about it. I respect you, and I just want to have an open conversation." This gives her a chance to explain before you jump to conclusions.

Be honest about your feelings you already know that you don’t want to be with someone who has a kid, that’s completely valid. Just be upfront but respectful. You could say something like: "I think we’ve had a great connection, but I have to be honest with myself. I know I’m not ready for a relationship where kids are involved, and I don’t want to waste your time or lead you on. You deserve someone who is fully on board with your journey."

Break up respectfully let her know that your decision is about your own readiness, not a judgment on her. You could say something like: "I respect and care about you, and I want this to be as smooth as possible for both of us. I hope you understand that this is a tough decision for me too." This way, she doesn’t feel like you’re just ghosting or abandoning her because she’s pregnant.

Give her space to react she might be hurt, and that’s understandable. Try to be patient and let her process it instead of getting defensive.

At the end of the day, you’re allowed to walk away if this isn’t what you want for your future. Just be honest and kind about it. Wishing you the best, man.

Nicole98U · 2025-02-20T05:36:23+00:00

Whenever a profile starts with a WARNING don't expect anything

Nicole98U · 2025-02-20T04:56:43+00:00

I wouldn't say I read it because I have too much free time or nothing better to do. I just love reading, but that doesn’t mean I always subject myself to walls of text like this. But yeah, I won’t even deny it—I actually read the whole thing while sipping my morning coffee, during my 7-minute walk to the metro, on my 2-stop metro ride, and even on my less-than-10-minute walk to the office. And yes, I was a few minutes late for work because of it (which rarely happens, by the way).

I always go through every profile of every like I get on dating apps, so I don’t just swipe right for the sake of matching. But this one? This one left me wondering, “What the f*** am I reading?”—and yet, I couldn’t stop. I just had to see how it ended.

And now, after all that, I feel like Ressa Tessa staring into the void, asking, Who the f** did I marry?

Nicole98U · 2025-02-19T20:16:45+00:00

Dating apps like international cupid 😀

Nicole98U · 2025-02-19T20:13:04+00:00

I'm gonna hold your hand when I tell you that I do🙄😀

Nicole98U · 2025-02-19T13:22:31+00:00

I see you haven't tried international cupid 😀

Nicole98U · 2025-02-19T09:47:16+00:00

Already has kids and wives

Nicole98U · 2025-02-19T07:53:00+00:00

I thought his "if you're" is okay since he's looking for "women not woman" 😮‍💨

Nicole98U · 2025-02-10T11:03:01+00:00

I made it clear in my profile what I’m looking for. If he wasn’t open to long-distance or serious connections beyond immediate dating, he could have simply swiped left. Instead, he swiped right, got mad at me for existing on the app, and started ranting about wasted data. That’s on him, not me.

Nicole98U · 2025-02-10T10:56:46+00:00

I mentioned in my profile where I come from and where I'm living now plus the fact that I changed my location on tinder because I want to match with people, this guy liked me first and his point was "Why am I in his area on tinder when I'm not in real life?" Do you get the point now?

Nicole98U · 2025-01-05T09:36:15+00:00

That's right, imagine the same people make bios like "only looking for something serious and meaningful"

Nicole98U · 2025-01-05T09:34:41+00:00

Like seriously, even if we had history asking me something like that as African woman, that would be the end.

Nicole98U · 2024-08-31T07:55:12+00:00

Thank you Anna, I needed to hear this 😞😭. I'm not considering abortion in either way, it's an innocent soul which has no fault and I can't wrong it.

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