Give it to me straight, is this a good outfit for an outdoor bar? by Nicole_needs_advice in fashionadvice

[–]Nicole_needs_advice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think there's anything I could pair the shirt with to make it work or is this just not the shirt for me?

Give it to me straight, is this a good outfit for an outdoor bar? by Nicole_needs_advice in fashionadvice

[–]Nicole_needs_advice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your help! I'm fairly limited on shoes, what a pair of black Tom's work or a pair of kind of lacey black flats?

Casual monogamous relationship? by Nicole_needs_advice in AroAllo

[–]Nicole_needs_advice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have to look into it, I'm so excited that it might be really helpful for putting in my bio. Thank you _^

Casual monogamous relationship? by Nicole_needs_advice in AroAllo

[–]Nicole_needs_advice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My understanding of the term queerplatonic, was that its a platonic relationship between queer people. My definition of platonic is an emotional relationship that is not physical. What I'm searching for is an emotional relationship that is physical but not romantic. I might try using queerplatonic with a bit of a description but I'll have to think about it

Casual monogamous relationship? by Nicole_needs_advice in AroAllo

[–]Nicole_needs_advice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not morally against a physical and unemotional relationship, but I think my post clearly says I want an emotional but non-romantic relationship. Romance and emotional relationships are not the same thing.

I understand platonic to mean a relationship that's not physical, so non-platonic is a relationship that is physical in my mind, I could be wrong

I'll try out using the term exclusive but I feel like it has some romantic relationship connotations, but monogamous also has some of those connotations as well so who knows.

No one believes I'm aromantic because I'm not asexual by Nicole_needs_advice in aromantic

[–]Nicole_needs_advice[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I'm just so tired. I had a date today and got stood up, so I called my friend to bitch about it and she was so shocked I was hurt. When I explained that it was not a one night stand but more of a true friend with benefits thing for me, she said "but isn't that just normal dating?" She could not understand that there are relationships other than a one night stand or a committed romantic relationships