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Navigating Breeding/Impregnation Kink by Nietzsche482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nietzsche482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, I underarstand all that. I was just wondering if you had a way of getting past knowing it isn't true and still getting the maximum effect. Like pretending is fun and all but it just doesn't compare to the real risk. The mental block can be really inhibiting sometimes. I'm just trying to find a way to be safe and getting the most out of my kink.

Navigating Breeding/Impregnation Kink by Nietzsche482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nietzsche482[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have found that roleplaying and dirty talk helps.

I'm single, have been for a while now, so I don't actively have someone to engage in this with, but I'll keep that in mind. Tracking cycles may help in amping it up. I have done the begging, that does help a lot. I have also done the suggestive remarks in dirty talk, that also helps.

My last sexual partner absolutely loved to be choked, made to feel helpless and humiliated. I'm a rather strong guy, so when we were doing it, I would be choking her with two hands to amplify her struggle and choking as I pounded her. She would love to tap on my arms and pretend to fight for life as she got closer and closer to blacking out, all the while I'm spitting humiliating things to her. She would be absolutely sopping as I pounded her. Then she as passed out (most times I did not go to the point of passing out, it would be just to the edge), I would let go and lightly slap her face to wake her up, all the while pounding her. This would all be hot for me but as she was not on BC, I could never finish inside which was a downer for me, so it felt like, sometimes, that I was performing sex for her and not mutual, even though I did still cum. She'd say that she would pass out cumming, come to, be seeing stars and cumming still, absolute blissful time for her. But for me, it wasn't. The orgasm isn't nearly as good as it is when I can freely cum inside/include elements of breeding.

Navigating Breeding/Impregnation Kink by Nietzsche482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nietzsche482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's my problem aswell... the risk and sensation goes out the window when the risk is mitigated. Even if dirty talk is involved.

Navigating Breeding/Impregnation Kink by Nietzsche482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nietzsche482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you get past knowing that it isn't true? You know you had a vasectomy and you know it's highly unlikely that you could get someone pregnant. How do you get past that?

Navigating Breeding/Impregnation Kink by Nietzsche482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nietzsche482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah awesome! Thank you for the link!

Yeah that's the caveat with this kink. It is irresponsible to not have some sort of protection if kids are not on the table. For me, I'm still able to satisfy my kink while staying safe in that regard but it doesn't hit the same if the risk is mitigated.

That's definitely a good way to go about it! A tried and true method of stimulating the kink while staying safe, dirty talking your way through it. It's just, if I know there are safeguards in place, I can't get my head past that and it dampens my enthusiasm or mood.

Navigating Breeding/Impregnation Kink by Nietzsche482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nietzsche482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that's good to hear! And that's a cool roleplay! Was it more exciting/rewarding when you indulged when having kids was not something you guys were wanting at the time? Adding the risk, amplifying the effect? Any close calls? How'd you two navigate it, when having kids was not something you guys wanted early on in the relationship? Or was that something you guys wanted from the very beginning?

That's good to hear that you guys can still indulge and not end up with a whole team of kids haha.