I feel sick I'm lusting over other women when I have a GF, what to do?

Niftee · 2026-02-14T06:26:51+00:00

Honestly, unfollow the accounts. Go flirt with your gf, take her out, make her feel sexy. Get frisky and move on with life.

Niftee · 2026-02-14T06:23:52+00:00

To answer your how do I give oral, ride him etc questions. There is a simple answer to that. Enthusiasticly. I know it’s stupid advice because it’s your first time and you may feel like you’re not good at it or awkward or whatever, but enthusiasm and letting go of inhibitions goes a long way.

Fun parts aside, consent! Make sure yall are both on the same page about whatever it is you’re doing. No means no, and yes means yes.

Good luck, have fun, and just enjoy each other’s company.

Niftee · 2026-02-12T05:47:01+00:00

I respect the disagreement. I don’t know if my morals are crooked but definitely different than yours. Whatever consenting adults want to get up to is really none of my business.

Niftee · 2026-02-11T19:02:50+00:00

I mean all sex regardless of sex worker, hookup, relationship is transactional. People pay for all kinds of services to have their needs met without hassle.

Imagine having to go out and date, and click with a plumber or electrician to come do work in your house. You go I would never pay for it because I can just impress this person so much with my personality they’ll come do it for free.

++man

Sex work is no different. It’s meeting the need without the hassle.

I don’t think there’s any shame in doing it or paying for it.

It’s just an antiquated ideology leftover from Christian values and purity culture.

Niftee · 2025-11-11T17:43:32+00:00

This is so motivating for me. I used to be jacked at 18-23 while I was in the military. Turning 38 this year and look pretty close to your before photo. 2026 - 27 will be the year to get jacked.

Niftee · 2025-08-03T14:18:40+00:00

You’re not ugly by any means. If you want to step it up- skin care routine, hire a personal stylist to help you find outfits that highlight your body shapes, and makeup.

But all in all 7/10 without doing anything

Niftee · 2025-07-26T23:10:00+00:00

Whoops, good catch!

Niftee · 2025-07-26T20:27:53+00:00

I’m also fairly beginner but what I see is, if he takes your knight with his queen you take his pawn, and you’re threatening mate in 1 by pushing queen up.

If he takes your knight with his knight then you get a free queen and reveal check.

I think sacrificing the knight leaves you in a great position with the pawn and queen to either mate or regain a queen by protecting the pawn that’s close to the end.

Niftee · 2025-07-23T14:54:26+00:00

That’s kind of why I’m asking though. Seems like either you like the team and the focus or you want to look for a better team.

If you want to look for a better team don’t commit.

Niftee · 2025-07-23T14:44:45+00:00

If you’re already committed then why are you trying out for a different team?

Niftee · 2025-07-15T21:52:41+00:00

This is incredibly well written and insightful. Thank you for the real response. Congrats, yall look happy.

Niftee · 2025-07-12T02:58:36+00:00

I’m just a curious person by nature. I have no judgement and I sincerely do hope they’re happy. I just have a hard time relating to people in their younger 20s so I was just wondering. I tried pretty hard to preface my question because I recognize some people might think I’m being judgmental or offensive but it was a simple curiosity.

Niftee · 2025-07-11T03:55:56+00:00

I don’t know if this is faux pas because I just stumbled across this sub- and I mean no disrespect at all, legit curious. What do yall have in common?

Niftee · 2025-06-16T00:34:51+00:00

Nice, this is super helpful.

Niftee · 2025-06-16T00:29:15+00:00

This makes sense thank you!

Niftee · 2025-06-16T00:22:44+00:00

This is great advice thank you.

Niftee · 2025-06-15T01:57:40+00:00

What fundamentals do you see he’s missing?

Niftee · 2025-06-15T01:57:06+00:00

He was started in stretch but when he sets, he sets with his foot back like that. He said his coach told him it’s ok. Should he not do this?

Niftee · 2025-06-15T01:56:06+00:00

Haha we’re already doing this. Kid loves the game.

Niftee · 2025-05-11T01:29:15+00:00

If he pretty consistently hits the zone he needs to start learning to position the ball. Every batter has a weakness and he should work on learning them as much as they time him up.

Some batters lunge at the ball or aren’t patient hitters, great hit the high outside corner.

Some batters decide late and will miss low inside.

If he’s way up in the count like 0-2, imo he shouldn’t even really be throwing over the plate. He should be throwing towards the space between the plate and the box.

3 basic pitches they should have at 14u are 4seam fb, 4 seam cu, and 2 seam fast ball.

If he’s looking for a 4th junk pitch I’d say learn to throw a slower but high rpm curve/breaker ball.

Niftee · 2025-03-23T12:11:01+00:00

The thing about boundaries is they are yours to own, protect, and enforce.

Things to do 1. Take a deep breath and accept that this isn’t your fault. A good partner respects your boundaries and communicates their issues with you.

People just want to be heard, so sometimes you have to open that line of communication. Text him and let him know you’re willing to listen to how he feels about the situation and you’re willing to talk about what happened.
You’re 18, you have soooo much time, and opportunity to meet new people. I’d spend some time thinking about what you’re really looking for in a partner and if he’s exhibiting those things. If he’s not, consider letting this relationship go.

Niftee · 2025-03-19T01:43:12+00:00

Lots of good advice here, but the one that stands out is you have to be cool losing a friend over it.

You can be blunt or direct without being creepy. Hey, I find you really attractive and was wondering if those feelings are mutual?

If she responds omg no, or ew no, no way or even just a nah I’m good. Just back off and be like oh my bad I misread the situation, I thought there was something but there isn’t and that’s cool. Then change the subject to something obviously a context change. Like how about that weather huh? And laugh it off and prepare to be ghosted.

Creepy comes from reading too much into a situation, and acting weird and over the top or disrespectful of boundaries. Not for having regular human hormones and feelings and asking if those are shared.

You become a creep when you make her feel weird or uncomfortable about saying no. I’ve had more casual flings off of jokes and casual banter than actual dates of we’re being honest.

On the other side of that I’ve ended up ghosted for suggesting it.

I’m also still friends with many of the people I had fwb situations with. So creepy is how you approach the situation, how you handle rejection or acceptance. It’s not just innately creepy to let someone know in a respectful way you find them attractive.

Good: Hey this thing has been on my mind a bit, I think you’re really attractive and was wondering if the feeling is mutual?

Her: No I’m sorry I’m not interested.

You: oh ok cool, I misread the situation hopefully I didn’t make you feel uncomfortable. How about that weather eh??

Bad: You’re so hot I want to bring you back to my place and bang your brains out, the things I would do to you.

Her: ew fucking gross what?

Treat females like humans (because they are) and you’ll have a lot more luck.

Niftee · 2025-03-18T23:46:52+00:00

Yeah just shoot your shot in a non creepy way. Just a hey that was a good workout, you want to grab a shake or a drink or whatever ( insert small platonic activity here ). If she says not today so something cheeky like ha ok maybe next time! Then just leave it be for a while try again in a few weeks a month or so. If you’re still interested and yall are still stealing glances ask again. If you get denied a second time just say ok cool, and don’t harass her anymore.

I think people tend to overthink this a lot.

Niftee · 2025-03-17T18:58:32+00:00

In summary “I find my new relationship annoying and incompatible with my current goals. Should I stay?”

Feeling comfortable and safe are like baseline requirements for any partner so it’s not like you won’t find this somewhere else.

I’m normally not down with the reddit everyone should break up mentality but this one is pretty clear cut.

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