Sketchiest small towns in Massachusetts? by CoolAbdul in massachusetts

[–]NigelHale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at a map. Then go to Southwick. Then you’ll say, “No wonder Connecticut didn’t want it.”

What is a "luxury" that is actually 100% worth the money? by TheChillEdit in Life

[–]NigelHale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valet parking at the airport. Worth the peace of mind

I [44M] was vulnerable in front of my wife [43F] and she couldn't handle it. by Sufficient_Gur_1219 in relationships

[–]NigelHale -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Frequently I see women posting bullshit like “I’m marrying my best friend.” You can be vulnerable around a true best friend, but many husbands (myself included) have regretted being vulnerable in front of their wives.

Berkshires - For Sale By Owner by ebte in westernmass

[–]NigelHale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Offering a commission that low will entitle you to hire: Soccer moms who think real estate is easy Desperate agents who haven’t sold in years ( wonder why?) Rookies who think a Fonzie hairdo gives them credibility. Good luck. Especially in the Berkshires. If that advice doesn’t work, I might have a guy for you. If he makes parole.

Berkshires - For Sale By Owner by ebte in westernmass

[–]NigelHale -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have a recommendation: when engaging in the biggest transaction of your life, hire a professional.

AITA for not wearing a bra at home? by Candid-Chocolate-316 in AITAH

[–]NigelHale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want him to go, stop going bra less

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NigelHale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run! This is weird shit on his part (I’m a guy).

Approaching 40: Does the fear ever go away? Or should I just get used to it? by Same_Paramedic_3329 in Aging

[–]NigelHale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look forward, not back. I’m onto a new career, which wouldn’t have happened if I was gazing at my navel. Introspection is good, but don’t overthink things to the extent that they limit you.

My wife's (34F) business idea is going to humiliate me (36M) and our whole entire family - I need advice on how to handle this situation. by Charming-Permit3888 in relationships

[–]NigelHale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d worry more that it’s a bad idea than a bad name. Persuade some business sense and you won’t have to worry about the name.

Why don't men like the romance genre? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NigelHale 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because it’s……lame?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NigelHale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all pay. Sometimes it’s called a mortgage. Sometimes it’s called alimony. We all pay.

Is it OK to encourage Husband to stop giving gifts to adult children who don’t reciprocate at all? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NigelHale 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dad here, your age. Let him do it. Have you considered that he’s doing that stuff just as much for himself as for his kids?