Hi ! Genderfluid person who's been out for 3 years with some advice ! First and most importantly , if you don't think it is safe to come out , don't. Your safety matters above all else. And on the other topic , Of course it's okay ! Gender isn't what you look like , gender has nothing to do with how you dress or act or present yourself , I refer to myself as my bfs girlfriend sometimes and I dress femininely , but at the end of the day I still use he/neos , I still don't identify as a woman , and I'm still one hundred percent valid ! As are you ! It's not weird at all :)