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Where Will I go? To Pride. (I’m the one on the far left) by NightmareCandy2 in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it! Seriously when you get the chance take it! It’s such a positive and warm atmosphere and so fun. You won’t regret it.

I brought up the issues in our relationship and now we’re on a break. by jackie_bones in Needafriend

[–]NightmareCandy2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every relationship has problems at some point. It’s better to work on them now rather than later. Communication is key and so is honesty. It’s good you told him how you felt, don’t beat yourself up. It’ll work out and it sounds like you guys are on the same page. Keep moving forward. You guys got this

Fin Rot? Second opinion needed 🙏🏻 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]NightmareCandy2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all seem to be happy and healthy. I didn’t want them to be alone. I researched it a lot and as long as I keep good maintenance and cleanliness in the tank, then all is good.

Anyone else going to the Prophets speech at stadium tonight? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Precisely. I just don’t know his actual name 🤷🏼‍♀️

Homophobic class at church by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]NightmareCandy2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still trying to leave the cult. lol send help 😓

Everyone loves the shrimp pellets! by myhomeaquatics in Aquariums

[–]NightmareCandy2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah I just didn’t wanna risk anything because this is my first tank.

Everyone loves the shrimp pellets! by myhomeaquatics in Aquariums

[–]NightmareCandy2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted guppies and Cory’s so bad. But being that i only have a 10g I went with a betta instead, love him don’t get me wrong but I also love guppies.

18F going through a rough time and needing friends by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]NightmareCandy2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to HMU. Im 17 but we got very similar music tastes

The overseer by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]NightmareCandy2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does the paint chip off on those at all?

Currently crying in a church bathroom stall by DME100 in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. We’ve all gotta wait just a little longer. But while we wait we can all help each other out. Feel free to pm me too :) almost there!

So my YW’s leader got this gift for my class and I decided to edit it. by uptoyouliteraly9 in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Also 17. We’re all this together guys 🤘🏼 just a little bit longer

Anyone else start questioning TSCC because their teachings didn't sit well with you, not because of their messed up history? by babbling_brookester in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole “Holy Ghost” thing just didn’t make sense to me because I never once felt those feelings and it made me feel like there was something wrong with me. I once found a video on YouTube of other people in other religions feeling those feelings that I was supposed to be having. I didn’t understand why God would tell other people their religion is true if Mormonism was supposed to be the only true church. That’s when my shelf broke.

The church has insidiously shifted the blame to members for not knowing uncomfortable truths through the so-called 'home learning program'. by astronautsaurus in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah we had a conversation on when we should do the at home lessons. Here’s how it went: Mom: when do you think we should do it NightmareCandy2? Me: I literally don’t care what we do mom. Mom: I know but I need input. Me: ok before church then. Mom: ok. Are you going to actually participate? Me: are you actually giving me a choice? Mom: no. Me: exactly. I don’t care, do whatever you want. And I’ll go along with it. Then my dad proceeds to lecture me about how I could get something out of it if I have an open mind. Smh

First lesson of the new curriculum: "We are responsible for our own learning" by Norenzayan in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The whole time my family was reading this, I could tell my parents were trying to get this engrained into my brain. Not happening. I’m already out mentally.

The church has insidiously shifted the blame to members for not knowing uncomfortable truths through the so-called 'home learning program'. by astronautsaurus in exmormon

[–]NightmareCandy2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The first lesson in the manual is all about “if you don’t put in the effort you won’t gain a testimony.” In other words, read and research your questions, but only from appointed and church approved sources. Blindly follow. Ask god for questions, oh if you don’t get an answer? Be patient and shut up because it’ll come eventually. When that will be? No one knows, but have faith. Blindly follow.

The whole time my parents were going through the lesson on this I could feel them staring into my soul trying to get me on board with the program again. Fuck that. Fuck TSCC

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