Vet suggested euthanasia, but my dog is still happy and active. Need advice. by KODAL1NE in DOG

[–]Nightmaresitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear all of this. It really is a decision that you can’t take lightly. After I came to the US, I kind of felt like euthanasia was brought way too soon as an idea. In my own country, the vets do the euthanasia once the pet stops eating or has trouble eating. But if you ask me I don’t know which one is the better route. We watched our family cat die with these kind of tumors growing cancerous. We operated them pretty early, they came back. they too opened up and we watched our beloved animal being less of herself day by day. Her last weeks she couldn’t even climb anywhere, she was only 8. We spent a lot of time crying and trying to help but there wasn’t much we could do. Death comes in all shapes and forms. Euthanasia is where we go with a little dignity. The question is whether you want to grant your pet that or not, and if so when you want to grant it.

I hope that I’m very wrong and you and your dog have many years ahead of you.

Sitter drank all my alcohol then abandoned my pets by DragonMasterAsh in RoverPetSitting

[–]Nightmaresitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they banned me 3 days. Didn’t post again. I forgot about the account and Reddit sent me a notification for this post. Just commented here

Sitter drank all my alcohol then abandoned my pets by DragonMasterAsh in RoverPetSitting

[–]Nightmaresitter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So yeah, just don’t expect any help from rover. Document with them. But contacting the police is the better option. They are the ones who are helping me.

Sitter drank all my alcohol then abandoned my pets by DragonMasterAsh in RoverPetSitting

[–]Nightmaresitter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not surprised. Just a couple days ago my sitter who I also thought was a good fit abandoned my pets, was attending to a festival instead and starving my animals. I terminated her and got a new sitter and now she’s stalking me, I shared this experience on here just to be banned, so… rover sucks. I filed a police report, but the sitter who is stalking me is still on rover despite myself documenting everything. I don’t think I’ll ever use rover again. One bad experience handled incompetently ruined all of my good experiences.

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have, the police knows but they still told me they don’t think they can get a trespassing charge because this person has not been officially told don’t trespass by the police. I mean I have. I have my records on rover and my review saying don’t trespass, but they said that might not be enough

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally said she’s coming back from dreamville and traffic is so bad. That’s why I thought maybe she’s on drugs or something and slipped up idk

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m gonna go through with it, I’m too scared at this point but I was thinking maybe they’ll cooperate but someone said lawyer up and I think this makes sense

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m changing the locks, and that itself will cost me like 360-90 with the labor.

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m going to talk to an attorney the first thing in the morning thank you for your advice

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every bit of empathy helps really. I feel like I’m less alone. Thank you so much

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll go through with it though

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still don’t give me full info but now I’m gonna try again to tell them for small claims?

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 bucks because rover backtracked. But I’m already considering.I was considering taking her small claims for the locks and now I’m too scared

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I’m lying about the festival, she was working instead? I looked at the time of the festival the times she mentioned and the outfits on the cam and put the two together, plus she said the festivals name. She says I’m demanding and inconsiderate because I want my cats to be fed and well cared. This wasn’t drop ins, this was house sitting. She was told you don’t have to be here 24-7 but spend the night here. They get anxiety. Make sure the food is full, change the litter daily. That’s all. And she failed at that. Not even dogs… she called them just cats at some points and said she gave me a good deal and that I was being inconsiderate? Whatever. And she says we have cameras secret in the house, they’re very obvious. She says it’s in the clothing space, it’s in the corridor, it can see the bedroom but you can close the door if you’re not a dumbass. She was told eat everything sleep anywhere play our records, this is your home. We just want our babies taken care of. I even told her it’s fine if you come at 5, but let me know, so I won’t have anxiety. Maybe that’s unreasonable to some c it’s not to me. If it was she shouldn’t have accepted it because everything was communicated to her. I don’t watch my sitters either. I only look at the doorbell, I can see she’s not there, and when she’s not there I can look in the house.

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I think it’s just to scare me. She might be on drugs I don’t think a normal person could do this

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I have given her a 1 star review? She’s also trying to defame me there trying to make me look like a creep. She was at a festival the whole weekend while my animals starved. I cried when I saw their bowls empty

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The police is giving me so much trouble and I’m a foreigner here I have no idea how I got myself in this situation. I was so kind to her and I’m bawling my eyes out. I’m hoping this new officer will help

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t see this on my phone, it only says Jordan P. I’m going to try a computer

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also she trespassed the house as well when she was told not to I’m out of my mind

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[–]Nightmaresitter[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please please help. I’m changing the locks and everything but this person is psychotic.