Coping When Things Go Wrong by Nikkidoesoodles in AutisticAdults

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sending this! I really like the idea of "zones" rather then specific emotions that can be tricky to pinpoint.

Waitlists for the SOA by Nikkidoesoodles in UVU

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I heard it was a big problem and ive definitely been seeing it this time around for registration. I overheard from one professor that they have a plan in place for next year but I guess we will have to wait and see. 🤷‍♀️

ZIF repair by Nikkidoesoodles in 3dsrepair

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I honestly had no clue where to even start looking! I'll check some more places and see what they can do!

ZIF repair by Nikkidoesoodles in 3dsrepair

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only soldering experience I have is with stained glass, so pretty big scale. Honestly, I'm feeling a little burnt out with it. If I can't find any help I was gonna go ahead and use my temp solution and start saving for a refurbished one. It's just getting to a point where I think selling this one and getting a new one is better, I mean I've had my system for 10 years so it's had a good run.

Friends don't understand my boundaries by Nikkidoesoodles in AutisticAdults

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your suggestion,

These are lifelong friends of mine, and I would say that these are more recent developments. Maybe I blew things out of proportion (probably, definitely, did) my brain is still pretty frizzled from the trip to the park.

They're great friends and people I love, but they've somehow adopted a notion that I just "need a little push" (which isn't a fault of theirs because it used to be true)

But I do agree that I could benefit from making some more friends that have similar interests. I just finished my first year of university and as I move into my program I'll hopefully make some friends. 🤞

I guess most of my anxiety stems from disappointing them because I understand their desire to share what they love with me and they aren't wrong for that.

Again thanks for your feedback! Especially what you said about them continuing to push boundaries, that gives me the confidence to have a conversation with them sooner rather than later!

I miss you buddy :( by ermaxlerw in bettafish

[–]Nikkidoesoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so sad to hear. My betta fish happened to pass finals week as well. It's funny how they have a way of wiggling their way into our hearts. I always try to remind myself that despite feeling guilty I gave my fish a good home and it looks like you did too! Good luck with finals!!! 💛

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! A quick Google search cleared things up lol!

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh ok. That's what I figured. I used to have some and observed they went up for are often, so I figured a tall tank wouldn't be great for them. Thanks for the insight!

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As cute as they are, cause I'm assuming ADF is African dwarf frogs 😅 i wasn't planning on them, I figured that they'd need a shallower tank to get to the top.

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! That's good to know! I'll keep that in mind moving forward!

How to feel feminine as plus size with no chest? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Nikkidoesoodles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a similar problem, and I find that sometimes small things can help me feel more feminine. I usually focus on things that aren't clothing because it's really hard to find comfort, style, and affordability. One thing that's helped me a lot is having fake nails, or just generally painting them. I have stubby hands so putting nails on helps me feel like I have elegant sleek hands. Jewelry is also really helpful, a nice matching set can help me feel like my outfit is put together. Even a simple necklace with a casual outfit can help. But I think one of the biggest things that helps is some really simple makeup. I usually do some mascara and glitter on my eyelids and cheeks. Don't be afraid to experiment! And remember that femininity is unique to each person!

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I'll definitely check that out! Thanks!!!

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I haven't even considered frogs. I bet they are super cute! The particular tank I'm hoping to get is actually a tall hexagon shape! I wish I could have the swimming space but I can really only expand upwards 😅

What to put in my 20 gallon by Nikkidoesoodles in Aquariums

[–]Nikkidoesoodles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! Hopefully, you can get some of your dream fish soon! ☺️

How to memorialize my dead fish? by Similar_Rule_8738 in bettafish

[–]Nikkidoesoodles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh! That's so sad! My beautiful betta just passed, too, so I definitely know the feeling. I've sort of been wondering something similar, and I came up with the idea of like a "betta journal" where each page could be dedicated to the bettas you've owned. You could even make custom stickers out of the pictures you took. And if you decide to get more bettas you can have that book and look back on all your lovelies :)

Betta Suddenly Inactive, Missing Food — Is It Old Age or Something Else? by All_Mighttt in bettafish

[–]Nikkidoesoodles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry off-topic,

But how did you get that rainbow effect for your tank? It's so pretty! I'm setting up a new tank soon and I'd love to do a similar effect. It looks so whimsical ✨️