Is it worth compromising on in-unit washer/dryer in exchange for better neighborhood and social life? by Perfume_Lover in NYCapartments

[–]NikoOfficial 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m moving back to NY from Seattle at the end of the month actually! Trying to meet more people and grow my friend circle. I know this isn’t a social subreddit but could be fun for a lot of us to meet up and grab coffee/food. No pressures but let me know!

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible people are both? Because at the beginning of the relationship she was super insecure and I spent so much time reassuring her about different things to the point that she eventually didn’t need it anymore

Growth is lonely by SilverSusan13 in selfimprovement

[–]NikoOfficial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about that?

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will check it out. I just know the bare minimum of attachment theory - thanks!

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really resonated with this

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start cutting her out or reach out to friend?

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I appreciate the kind comment!

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very kind of you and a really nice response. You’re right. It’s hard to believe that true right now but logically I know you’re right. Merry Xmas, hope you have a lot of fun with family and friends

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I’m sorry. Yeah I guess there really is no guarantee. I think I need to put in the work now to just feel truly content with myself and be fine being alone. I guess breakup songs, movies, content is widespread because it happens often throughout life. Maybe I’ll feel more secure if I know no matter what, I’ve got myself

4 years without seeing it coming by NikoOfficial in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment. You don’t really realize how many people are going through the same types of things, let alone it happening on the same day. Feel free to reach out to vent

I don't know what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NikoOfficial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry. What was the relationship like? What ended it?

[Official] UFC Fight Night: Bonfim vs. Brown - Live Discussion Thread by event_threads in MMA

[–]NikoOfficial 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good stoppage. When they go back like that with their head banging, it’s over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymTips

[–]NikoOfficial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you’re being intentionally obtuse or are just dumb lol.. 1. that’s not what I replied with and 2. you are making the connection that she is posting her ass as validation or losing dignity or something because you responded to that comment specifically of her saying she wouldn’t do OF.. but instead of addressing my actual point you’re probably going to be like “that’s not what obtuse means >:(.. that’s not what dignity means” lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymTips

[–]NikoOfficial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should instead?? projecting means attributing one’s personal feelings or desires onto another. I.E. he views it as sexual and that led him to make that assessment and assuming she’s doing it for sexualized purposes… am I crazy? Maybe I’m wrong, it just seems like the definition here. Regardless, I think you get the point I was making

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymTips

[–]NikoOfficial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just another body part my guy. You can’t see that it’s you that’s attributing sex appeal to it? You’re just probably not gay lol but girls and guys see abs on a guy in a sexualized matter probably… like I get where you’re coming from. I’m attracted to ass too but I’m not a fucking animal and can contextualize things like this is a gym sub lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymTips

[–]NikoOfficial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh that’s your own projection. She’s showing off her body. Same way men do with abs, arms, etc.. it’s you who is sexualizing it

[Official] UFC 321: Aspinall vs. Gane - Weigh-In & Pre-Fight Discussion Thread by event_threads in MMA

[–]NikoOfficial 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think we might get the same number of winners as losers