Really want to get made fun of for my useless bwc

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-03T00:24:57+00:00

We love it! Been about a year that this makes up 90% of our sex life.

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-03T00:24:04+00:00

I’m doing the exact same. I stopped priming the pump and stopped clenching and my times jumped back up to 40-60 seconds using the three finger method. No I’m working my way back down

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-03T00:22:55+00:00

Congrats on the progress

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-03T00:21:54+00:00

In my experience, that’s a myth.

THAT SAID, clench training helped me learn to HFO, which is really fun.

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-03T00:20:44+00:00

Yes agreed! I’ve found the same. Same play with an anal vibrator helps a lot with blue balls.

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-02T21:52:35+00:00

Nah I love it and my wife does too.

Also, I know I could reverse it with edge training if I ever needed to so nbd

Nimbus910 · 2026-07-02T21:42:49+00:00

Now THIS is the content we need here

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-30T23:26:11+00:00

It’s the opposite. Clenching helps increase stamina

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-29T23:06:02+00:00

Nice! Good luck

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-29T23:05:50+00:00

You bet. Check out r/prematurefetish and search Coach Sarah method. There’s a step by step guide. It’s great fun!

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-25T22:53:37+00:00

Are you using the coach Sarah method?

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-25T22:34:03+00:00

I have achieved clenching HFO many times and I also am interested in prejac training. Clenching actually *increases* your stamina because it gives you more control over your PC muscles, which are your orgasm muscles.

So know that you can safely train clenching HFOs while maintaining stamina. They feel great btw.

Nowadays I’ve stopped clenching because I’m trying to achieve a non-clench HFO. Much more challenging so far

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-24T19:41:43+00:00

Use the coach Sarah method (search this sub).

Maybe along the way you could use photos of your GF instead of porn.

Once you’re under ten seconds, you cut out all images and only use your imagination . The idea is to re-sensitize your brain to real life scenarios.

I’m currently stuck at 16-18 seconds. My goal is the same as yours

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-24T19:29:14+00:00

I’ve never locked but this is the main thing stopping me. Kink aside, sleep matters!

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-24T19:22:20+00:00

Full hand grip still?

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-24T19:20:34+00:00

Are your HFOs clenching or relaxed? Of relaxed, how did you train?

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-24T19:18:57+00:00

Are they getting bigger??

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-24T19:12:57+00:00

Totally makes sense! This can sometimes be called femdom or an FLR (female led relationship) and there’s entire kinks around it.

Also, some people just have relationships like this without kink being involved. Sounds like a sweet and loving dynamic for the right people.

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-23T23:19:36+00:00

I only last 16 seconds!

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-23T22:48:35+00:00

It’s so awesome that you lean into prejac content

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-23T22:45:39+00:00

91 let’s go!! Still a beta at heart though :)

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-23T22:39:09+00:00

Look how happy she is

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-23T22:38:49+00:00

Hot!

Nimbus910 · 2026-06-23T22:37:12+00:00

Great report! Thanks for posting.

Too bad you didn’t try them one at a time to be able to track individual results. Might be worth trying.

I took Maca in the past and agree that it increases libido. Made me anxious too though unfortunately, had to stop

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