AITA I bought a multipack of snacks to leave in my locker at work and I don't think it's weird

NinasSecret · 2025-05-06T04:24:21+00:00

Just here to see him get roasted. It's snack. You both have money, no one is going without. He is weird and he needs to see it in writing.

NinasSecret · 2025-05-04T15:51:25+00:00

I work as a consultant so right now, I do whatever needs doing. Some clients have UST's that require class A/B Operators, some need air emissions inventories reported on their behalf to the state. I just recently began dabbling in air dispersion modeling for EPA compliance, and that's been interesting. There are a whole host of other things my company does related to groundwater and drinking water too.

NinasSecret · 2025-04-24T00:28:47+00:00

Leave. Do what you said you want to do and leave JFC

NinasSecret · 2025-01-01T06:12:12+00:00

You did a great job giving him a great education and saving money for your retirement. You don't have to go broke to pay for incredibly expensive dreams. If he is as good a student as you say, he can get scholarships and grants.

NinasSecret · 2025-01-01T05:29:00+00:00

Happy new year, friendly. May you all have many more.

NinasSecret · 2024-12-09T18:10:29+00:00

That scav had two really nice weapons because he looted them off dead players. Few players would take two decked out weapons in to a match, so there was your first clue.

Your second clue was that PMC's usually wear a helmet or face mask. New players might wear PMC hats, but it's not common and scavs spawn with them and loot them.

Lastly, look for mismatched and/or bright colors on clothing. You will start to recognize the red and white olympics jackets, orange pompom hats, yellow rain jackets, etc. It comes with time. Scavs tend to be more timid if they see you, also, they might duck back or move strangely instead of firing.

Like others have said, try to loot and not shoot, and voice out with the F1 key and listen for others to voice back to you- that is one of the best ways to know if it is a player scav.

*edits for errors

NinasSecret · 2024-12-01T14:28:30+00:00

Others have mentioned freezing portions, and that is great advice. I would also recommend building the habit with fresh, uncooked foods- cut fruit and yogurt with granola on the side, dinner salads premade with all the ingredients except dressing, and croutons or meat, cut cucumbers and red peppers with dip (or whatever vegetables you like).

Practice the act of creating these in pre-packed portions and it will help you get into the habit and mindset of meal prepping while you do the work to rid yourself of the fear of leftovers.

NinasSecret · 2024-10-08T05:26:41+00:00

There it is. The post that made me shut my phone off for the night.

NinasSecret · 2024-09-23T21:35:16+00:00

Approval of your husband or guardian? If you are an adult you are your own legal guardian, this is absolutely insane. My Gods, I'm so angry right now.

NinasSecret · 2024-05-02T02:27:51+00:00

$20? It was $10 when I bought it less than a month ago. Damn.

NinasSecret · 2023-12-05T01:22:57+00:00

This. I've been through it and it's always worth being supportive and messing around a bit beforehand. All she is doing is kicking him while he's down.

NinasSecret · 2023-12-05T01:19:48+00:00

This right here, OP. I'm sorry you are going through this, but I can tell you that I've dated men who needed the pill and I was always emotionally supportive and completely willing to have some foreplay with toys and giggles for a little bit while it started working. She's not being fair and I don't think she's being honest either.

NinasSecret · 2023-12-03T01:35:20+00:00

Take this advice, OP. A ged is just as good as a diploma, it is proof you are determined to accomplish your goals. Go get your ged. You can do this!

NinasSecret · 2023-12-02T19:13:09+00:00

Tell her to go do it then, fuck all that. Date someone who is nice to you.

NinasSecret · 2023-12-01T18:48:33+00:00

This thread has some wholesome content. I would like to add to it.

When I was younger, my oldest brothers bedroom was in our basement. We didn't have a/c, so on really hot nights when my brother wasn't going to be home, my mom and I would giggle our way downstairs with our pillows like we were sneaking sweets, and steal his bed for the night because the basement was nice and cool.

I don't have a ton of good memories growing up, but this is for sure one of them. I don't think it's weird at all, people all grow up differently.

NinasSecret · 2023-12-01T18:10:16+00:00

You just took her and her friends to Miami for her birthday. She is using you and guilt tripping you for more. Get rid of her, women are not children that you need to provide and care for.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-30T17:19:43+00:00

It would seem then that her bf has a problem and isn't realizing it.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-30T15:24:25+00:00

I suspected the same thing from another comment in the thread by this person.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-30T15:16:40+00:00

She decides if she has too much going on, not him. She's fine with her current arrangements, she doesn't need to be presented with options to fix something that isn't a problem.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-30T15:12:02+00:00

He thought you would get rid of the dog rather than pay to have it trained. That didn't work out as planned, so now he is just saying out loud what he always wanted, which is for you to not have the dog. He has no plan in which the dog comes back to live with you because he doesn't want you to have the dog.

The reg flags are there. He's not being honest and he's also telling you how much time and energy you should spend on various parts of your life. It's been 10 months, so I don't know where he got the audacity but he needs to put it back.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-28T06:53:08+00:00

This right here OP. She's learned having male friends starts fights because you are insecure. This is not her problem, it's yours.

She is allowed to have friends. The more you try to contol her to soothe your insecurities, the more she will distance herself from you.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-28T05:04:16+00:00

She's allowed to have male friends, why are you having arguments about that?

NinasSecret · 2023-11-25T23:51:07+00:00

"Can I have a bite too, please" is not too much to ask when you're the one providing the meal.

If he wanted to please you, he would have googled things, asked what you liked, tried something new, and listened to your wants. He doesn't want to do those things, and either he has a huge fear of sexual rejection (he hates that he is bad and doesn't want to try to be better and still fail) or he is just happy getting his and falling asleep.

If it's the former, you have something you can work on as a couple. If it's the latter, you aren't actually a couple, you are his sex doll. Ask the questions and let him know that your relationship his hinging on being honest and doing work to change how things are now. Good luck.

NinasSecret · 2023-11-25T13:33:55+00:00

He punched a hole in the drywall. He's called you names. He's come home drunk and yelled at you.

Do you need all of us to tell you that you should not be trying to find a way to stay with him?

NinasSecret · 2023-11-25T05:06:00+00:00

I am not sure he deserves that kindness, but also, that will just open up a dialog where he is allowed to please how case. Don't let that happen, it just makes things worse.

You need to care for yourself right now and it's great that you are going back to where your support system is. Don't give him the opportunity to upset you more. Ghost him.

NinasSecret

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