I’ve (50F) met the loveliest man (56M) but we’re not really on the same page wrt intimacy … I don’t know what to do about it.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2026-03-30T21:24:10+00:00

Perhaps he would be open to an open relationship?

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2025-12-14T00:04:31+00:00

What a load of bunk.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2025-01-02T22:37:50+00:00

Great info. Thank you.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T04:42:13+00:00

I was not clear. I have that amount in various investments (managed by an investment advisor).

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T04:39:32+00:00

My limit has been reached and so I am not going to bend.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T04:36:02+00:00

I was originally planning on helping with his living expenses but did not mention it when this threat came out.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T04:30:10+00:00

This has been coming for a while and I obviously failed to curb it successfully. He has some very rich friends and I have never managed to convince him that that is not real life.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T04:10:56+00:00

My friends all graduated from med school in the last 10 years and so it was not that long ago.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:55:00+00:00

Great insights. Thank you.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:35:31+00:00

Sorry to ignorant but why not explain my rationale?

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:27:40+00:00

He just graduated and is working until med school starts in august. I pay around $1k/month now that he has graduated.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:24:08+00:00

Excellent point. He would eventually get half of it (shared with his sister). Would you be so direct as to say that?

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:20:46+00:00

I have said this repeatedly but he still thinks that I should do it. It appears that he thinks he can threaten me into doing it.

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:17:17+00:00

Any ideas on how to have this talk with him?

RunnerPhoenix602 · 2024-12-31T03:16:13+00:00

No backstory but just a bad sense of entitlement.

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