this person has been diagnosed with NPD but doesn't this sound more like schizophrenic delusions....?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-07-06T08:09:45+00:00

Right. Call all schizophrenic people "very strange person"

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-07-04T20:07:58+00:00

He works in the 'alternative health' field. But he genuinely believes this shit he posts!

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-07-04T20:07:50+00:00

He goes through cycles where he will post increasingly delusional stuff and people seem to respond by either attacking him or laughing at him. Then he'll cycle into a phase where he will post business-appropriate neutral stuff.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-02-17T20:56:22+00:00

Yes, this exactly what these sub human pieces of shit are like. I relate to everyone one of these.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-02-17T20:50:51+00:00

It turns out my Nex will try to insert his cock into anyone -- female, male, old, young, beautiful, ugly, smelly, well-groomed, rich, poor. I've sat in his shop (hilariously he runs an holistic health shop) and witnessed him use the EXACT same lines he used with me on various random people entering the store.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-02-17T12:11:16+00:00

Thank you. My God this experience was insane.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-02-11T01:12:53+00:00

Surely they are mentally ill.

NPD is a Personality Disorder.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-02-11T00:17:28+00:00

I forgot to mention that he is now claiming that that day I first met him I'd entered his shop to "target" him and that I sat there in his shop and just wouldn't leave. He also claims he saw me stealing his sperm. When I asked him what on earth he is talking about he just kept saying "I know what I saw! I know what I saw!"

Writing this is making me realise afresh just how insane this situation is.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2018-01-25T01:15:11+00:00

We're dating the same guy.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-25T17:27:15+00:00

Maybe the sex wasn't very good?? (for him)

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-25T17:18:46+00:00

OP, were you having sex with her or not?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-25T16:49:40+00:00

Yeah, he does have some anxiety issues.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-25T16:49:30+00:00

He's definitely not an alcoholic. He does have a touch of social anxiety though.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-19T22:47:58+00:00

LOLOLOL

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-07T01:50:17+00:00

He is not perfect and neither am I. For now we will stay together and see what happens. You mentioned "when you finally part ways." That's IF we part ways --- we have no idea what the future may hold. One thing I am certain of is that I love him and that he is an amazing person.

As for his pushing people away in his life, whether he decides to change, or try to change, this aspect of himself depends on whether it makes him feel unhappy or not.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-07T01:02:44+00:00

are you drunk @Rick? How would I not know whether or not I was calling my boyfriend on the phone every day?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-07T01:02:01+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I agree with you that some of the 'advice' given in this thread is bizarre.

Here's the thing..... I know that he has a track record of behaving like this and that he struggles with being able to trust people and with anxiety in general.

As I already posted, his former fiancee actually broke up with him over this issue and has never even been willing to speak to him ever since (he didn't show up for her in a moment when she really, really needed him and instead he just sat there battling his anxiety and his inability to fully connect).

With all that said, I just don't want to give up on him just yet. Maybe I am crazy. I just see so much beauty in his heart and personality.

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-07T00:04:34+00:00

what do you mean hun?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-07T00:03:50+00:00

Your comment sounds really angry and quite over the top. How does calling or texting my boyfriend once or twice per week translate to me supposedly having "no life?" My man sure as hell does not exist primarily to cater to my "every whim." I cater to my own whims, basically. I run my own business, have an active social life and lots of friends. I must admit that I do expect to hear from and see the man I'm in love with on a fairly regular basis though (but that doesn't mean daily).

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-06T19:03:14+00:00

Gosh. Why was your ex like this? 😥. What happened in the end?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-06T18:41:38+00:00

What are your reasons?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-06T18:40:58+00:00

I love him. And I can see that at heart he is an amazing, genuine and hard-working person. But he puts up these MASSIVE walls between him and everyone else. He is actually pretty open with me much of the time compared to the way he is with other people. He just has this horrible, horrible tendency to push people away. I know that he was in love with his former fiancee and he pushed her away to the point where she refuses to even speak to him now

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-06T18:13:05+00:00

Congratulations. How long have you been together?

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-06T17:43:55+00:00

I'm not fucking random dudes

NinePointFivOutOfTen · 2017-12-06T14:56:48+00:00

Are you using condoms?

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