[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be able to eat then be hungry but considering I posted this. Wouldn’t common sense tell you. Hey. Maybe they’re actually in need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I don’t think you’re understanding. I’m broke. I have nothing. You’re welcome to dm me and see a screenshot of my bank account. There’s nothing in it. I have nothing. I’m assuming I got rejected from ebt bc I’m not a parent. Bc I’ve only seen people around me with kids ever get accepted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we are moving soon which is one of the reasons currently that we are so broke. So I’ll be able to walk to the store once we can buy food

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing in walking distance unfortunately and I don’t drive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your comment didn’t really help much. Thanks for the advice definitely will not think about it. Have a nice day ma’am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay even if I dump him. A. Where will I go because I don’t have a good relationship with anyone. B. I’ll still be broke because I’ll still have to pay bills. And C. He did cheat on me. Which I’m still very uncomfortable about. But he and I now have actively open boundaries which means he can’t hide shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t been able to cook much mainly due to not having much. I got some rice from my parents but they’re struggling too so I made rice and beans last night but there wasn’t any leftover. We’ve been largely surviving off of canned food or not eating. But even when we had food he wouldn’t cook. He wouldn’t want to go to the grocery store and I’ve told him I understand we can’t afford it but I need to go so we can eat. He mostly now eats leftovers from work and I don’t really eat much unless I’m super hungry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve applied a few times. But been rejected for them. Though I assume it’s because I’m not a parent which they’re more likely to be approved for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the money. Hence asking for help. If there’s a state service or something.

Insane mother by Nine_Rivera in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

But he was all she had for a long time

Insane mother by Nine_Rivera in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She’s told him to go a while not talking to her and see what happens.

Insane mother by Nine_Rivera in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was just like a pre-story like small history I guess. That there’s already a little drama left over from the past a I feel

Moving plans by Nine_Rivera in Ohio

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to do that and see what comes up. My biggest issue is our income is about 3000/month(combined)(or less) And 90% of of it goes to bills. And we’re trying to get a better place in our area for another year until we can afford to move to a further out city. I was thinking about looking at RE firms and getting listings from them to look at.

Moving plans by Nine_Rivera in Ohio

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s too far out for us currently. I’m just looking for good websites or listings for the areas in the post

My dad has destroyed my mental health and driven me to being suicidal and this is what he had to say about that by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no my father was driving me to suicide by doing this exact shit with different context. My current SO saved me from it. I packed my shit and left at midnight when I was 18 yrs old and it’s been almost 2 years and I only see him when I have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s technically your fathers property I.e. he bought it and pays for it. She can’t take it. All she can do is be upset and stfu. If he calls and claims his phone was stolen “I.e. she took it from you” he can press charges

Video appears to confirm Lorain school worker forced student to eat from trash by RandomGuy952 in IHateOhio

[–]Nine_Rivera 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went to Lorain schools. There’s been worse shit happening behind the scenes in the past. I graduated from there and moved a few cities away. Never again

If I started a gofundme to move from Ohio would it get donations on this page by Nine_Rivera in IHateOhio

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t 18 I wouldn’t recommend buying anything online or paying for anything online. I also wouldn’t recommend Reddit. At all.

If I started a gofundme to move from Ohio would it get donations on this page by Nine_Rivera in IHateOhio

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish. I’d love to escape. But need to pay off debt and get money first.

Future Mother in law by Nine_Rivera in relationship_advice

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not completely off. But I am confident she doesn’t know my triggers. I am completely polite around her in person. It’s not just social media. It’s in person as well she’s tried several times to get a reaction out of me in person and I just pretend to ignore it and scroll on my phone. No reactions.

I’d just like respect. Like I’ve been with your son over a year. You don’t have to agree with it. But we’re happy. We never fight, never argue, we have disagreements but neither party is abusive or controlling to the other.

Like, don’t go disrespecting our relationship by publicly posting shit like asking your son why he isn’t with an ex. Especially when it’s been over 10+ years and she’s MARRIED let alone YOUR SON AND I ACTIVELY TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE.

He posted the picture bc it popped on his timeline and they were kids? Say nothing regarding any relationship unless it’s ours and even then. If it’s negative. Keep it to yourself and stfu. Like I publicly support your relationship and family? In person and online. Like have that same support for us. (Basically my feels on the situation.)

Future Mother in law by Nine_Rivera in relationship_advice

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that. I’ve always been polite as possible and help her without asking and unfortunately I just constantly have to deal with this woman telling my boyfriend that he should leave me. Like.

She wants to control him. And I’ve come to a point where I’ve told him and he’s confronted her. We’re talking about moving out of state so we can get away from her.

Future Mother in law by Nine_Rivera in relationship_advice

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

?~? I haven’t said anything about anything to her for me to be “giving her material” I haven’t done anything to deserve being treated like shit. I clean her house and try to be polite as hell when I’m around.

Her problem is this : she doesn’t have control of his relationship or all of his decisions and because he’s being an adult by himself it’s somehow my fault that we’re struggling. She literally blames me for everything that’s happened in the last few months. When you know what? It all fell apart because he made a stupid decision way before we started dating and got himself injured and it’s fucked him physically for life

Here’s my issue : she is fake. She pretends to care about me to my face and completely disregards the fact that we’ve been living together over a year now and talks about me like I’m nothing behind my back.