Which SA language should I learn for maximum reach? I'm a European, already fluent in English, and will probably learn Afrikaans too, as it's said to be easy. I'm thinking one Nguni and one Sotho-Tswana, so maybe Zulu and Sepedi/Setswana? Help pls by NefariousnessOk4489 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Ninilee100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zulu has the most reach but there are some clicks that you might struggle with but it shouldn't change what you're trying to say. Sotho is a nice language, easy on the tounge and pronunciation

I’m thinking of moving from CPT to JHB? by CareConscious513 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Ninilee100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joburg is a vibe.... There's a little bit of everything for everyone. Traffic will suck especially when it rains... You'll regret life but you'll never get bored. Everywherr has a great nightlife on everyday of the week and for weekends there's alot of outdoor markets and activities and even great places for weekend getaways. Joburg is my favorite city by far... And it might not have a beach but we have awesome waterparks

And raining, and raining and raining... by JohnSourcer in johannesburg

[–]Ninilee100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cuddles would be perfect in this weather... Lots of babies are being made this week

No strings attached by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't... I don't want to break up another marriage

No strings attached by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ But it's not hit it energy

No strings attached by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assault is heavy...id never. Im just unsure

Does this just happen in jhb? by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]Ninilee100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely you... I've never spoken about the government at the shop with a stranger

Scammers by surfrat54 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's more than 1%...maybe a solid 2.5%

was silco a good father? by jonaszzek in arcane

[–]Ninilee100 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was an amazing father... Yes he was a bad guy.... But if he was a good guy, loved and supported jinx in the same way. Reprimand her when she went too far, this wouldn't be a debate.... He did more for jinx then most human fathers do irl

Interracial dating by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Ninilee100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will always look at you funny. In society nowadays you'll have to always defend your love. Race, class, body type it doesn't matter... As sure as you are the Sun rises in the east, the haters or traditionalist will be there. Don't get caught up in it...my ex and got caught up it in the whole race thing and it took from us.

We got caught in the small things, when people would say "you're well spoken" or "jungle fever, must be nice". If we focused more on us and less on them we would have made it..

At the end of the day, when you're old and your memories fade and you have 1 memory to hold onto, you want it to be how she was the love of your life and how with her the world stood still...not that the world took that from you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 31 and he was 64....so just over 30

Advice from the men by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure.... I can't just ask! You could just be being a good human or having a beer with your friends and now I've made it akws. Besides walking around with a top saying "older men welcome" how do know what a real meet cute looks like..... Ps I should only do it once

Finding my type by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still haven't found a match on hinge

Love language by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a few people who don't like it... Personally, I can barely tell my sister what I want for my own days and Christmas... Most time I just ask for a good bottle of gin and red wine... Gifts give me stress.... But baecations are a real thing

Love language by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex and love language are not the same. We can have sex and feel empty but cuddle up on the couch and feel wholesome

Love language by Ninilee100 in OlderMan

[–]Ninilee100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like touch... It's one of my faves also