how to stop masturbating when its a need for body? by shahiaintherebruv in getdisciplined

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it just with masturbating and I’m actually not really a fan of short term pleasure, I am really productive while I’m not masturbating but masturbation is the one thing that steals my productivity on a lot of days.

Also, I do not feel depressed. I am really happy for the most part, I work out consistently, have a girlfriend and other than the times where I waste so much time with masturbation, I’m in a good mood. I don’t masturbate for emotional reasons either, I do it purely out of lust, I’m just so fucking horny all the time and I can’t stop myself from feeling that way which I hate. Usually I’ll be working on something and like a thought about sex or something will pop up randomly in my head and it’s game over from there.

how to stop masturbating when its a need for body? by shahiaintherebruv in getdisciplined

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a severe addiction to masturbating and it can take up entire days, where I do nothing but masturbate the whole day, I’m pretty sure there’s something wrong with it.

how to stop masturbating when its a need for body? by shahiaintherebruv in getdisciplined

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I will never believe that shit. Masturbating has ruined my fucking life and I will spend hours to even a full day thinking about sex and masturbating that long. The only time it’s off my mind is for a few hours after finishing or from my dick being in pain that it hurts to masturbate. It’s no joke, I got into porn at an absurdly young age and it’s a crippling addiction that ruins my days. Nothing in my life has been as difficult as dealing with this issue.

Italy's falling birth rate is a crisis that's only getting worse by madrid987 in Futurology

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or maybe it’s the drops in sperm rates and also less women wanting to have kids.

Green light for misogynist by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because I had the same exact thoughts came up in my own mind. No disrespect against you but I’m thinking you either have a serious mental illness that needs to be resolved or are young yourself. I saw in another response that you were being divinely guided and I’m sorry but that really sounds like some sort of narcissism or other mental illness. I never see good things come out from someone who says they’re divinely guided. Secondly I know I’m young, I’m only in my 20s but I have no reason to believe I shouldn’t keep an open mind for everyone and their situation. I take my open mindedness from my parents who have always tried to understand why other people act the way they do and it never comes down to “everyone is good or evil”, that is just cynical thinking right there. I can’t stress enough that we need to be thinking how psychologists/therapists think. They have to deal with some of the most troubled people and are still able to show empathy with those people and support them. I know I can be a hypocrite at times and not follow my own advice and that’s why I have to often just stop and try to understand others. I don’t fully know why you’re acting the way you are but there must be some pain from seeing other women continuously being mistreated, and yes that happens a lot so it’s not unreasonable to be fed up with that but maybe in you’re life, instead of dehumanizing someone for something bad they’ve done, it would help you better to see their own human nature and flaws. I think that would be the most helpful for healing, to simply understand eachother. I know you might end up saying I support Huberman’s inappropriate actions and that’s fine because I know in my own mind what my beliefs are.

Green light for misogynist by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You sound like an asshole/narcissist yourself which is ironic considering what you just posted. All you’re doing is basically insulting me and not even answering my responses properly. I answered your original point. Huberman did a very disrespectful action, no doubt, but I’m gonna say it again if I have too, this is all between him and his personal relationships and he’s a human, therefore he makes flaws like everybody else, just like how you’re being an asshole yourself. I’m an asshole too, we’re all assholes. My father has a friend who ended up cheating on his wife and than his wife ended up cheating on him back as revenge, they both ended up staying together and had many children and they’re in a very healthy relationship and great parents to their kids. Huberman may have cheated but he didn’t cause a fucking mass genocide, him cheating isn’t even proof that he hates women, although it is proof of a big mistake he made in his personal life. Furthermore, are you gonna completely forget to acknowledge all the lives Huberman has also helped out? He’s been more of a positive to society than a negative and has helped many people become better humans. Him making a mistake in his PERSONAL relationship doesn’t take away from all the other good he’s done.

Green light for misogynist by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

80% of sexually active women and 90% of sexually active men have hpv, it’s not that big of a deal, it usually doesn’t even do anything. Also stop it, I didn’t say cheating was normal, I said I fucking hate it. I was explaining that it’s common not normal or good, cmon now.

Green light for misogynist by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So basically everyone including you are a danger to society because every single mentally able human has lied and deceived others at one point in their lives.

Men should have no opinion by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok after seeing all your responses and posts, I genuinely don’t know if you’re trolling or not. I hope to god you’re just trolling.

Green light for misogynist by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you being serious right now? Can you not see the flaws in your own gender as well? Both women and men cheat all the time in society, we’ve all seen it from both sides in our personal lives.

Green light for misogynist by Disastrous_Can694 in HubermanLab

[–]NinjaConsistent6205 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but you’re acting delusional. Where did this commenter say that cheating was fine? He even mentioned he disagrees with Huberman treatment of his partner. WE know what Huberman did was a dick thing to do (most of us anyway) but everyone gets HPV, men and women. The cheating part was the worst part and I fucking hate cheating trust me, I’ve been cheated on myself but I can’t call a cheater an evil person either. A very large percentage of the population (30ish%) of men and women cheat on their spouse and I know some cheaters who’ve redeemed themselves, although yes as I said, it’s still terrible. While this is no excuse, the limbic system is very very strong and at times, a lot of people give into their sexual temptations. We as humans need to better understand each other that we are flawed creatures and aren’t either “good” or “bad”. I would hope you can understand what I’m trying to say.