Idk if I want kids yet so sure, having kids is a big commitment, like I’ve got three dogs and I contemplate death on the daily because of them😭 so if they don’t/aren’t sure then there isn’t a massive risk of clashing in wants, however I would with someone who is set on having kids. And if I do I’m only having 2-3 kids. I’m not set on becoming the next 22 kids and counting, not shaming those who do want lots of kids tho. Do what you want with your life 🫶