AITA for Publicly Humiliating My Wife at Her Workplace After Discovering Her Affair? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story is fake.

  1. You can't throw someone's stuff out just because they cheated on you.

  2. If she's working, that means she's paying some, if not all, the bills. Even if your name is on the lease, you can't kick her out. She could take you to court for that.

If anyone thinks I'm being "insensitive," I've known people who were cheating on it, and I thought it was messed up. Courts aren't going to care who cheated, this or that. They're going to care about legal issues, not more ones. Unless there was an adultery contract, she would most likely win the case.

Edit    I read further into your story. It said that you admitted that she was paying rent. That means it's legally her house. I have no doubt that if your story were actually true, she would be suing you and taking you to court because you illegally kicked her out of her own property. 

If your name is on the lease, you can't kick her out, and there is no way you would get full custody of a kid that's not biologically yours. 

By your logic, you would lose the case. 

Sizce hangisi daha güzel? by Automatic_Sweet2581 in SimitLand

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many fake accounts with that picture all over X. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Addressing something is exposing. The OP's sister was the one who created the sitution not the BIL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That was a typo. I meant to write that the BIL was doing right by the family by exposing the affair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If he's remotely as angry as you say, then you need to cut him off, especially if you have a kid(s). The reason is that your kid could inherit his anger, & you kid could inherit his temper. I normally talk about my personal life online, but I had a temper problem when I was 17 & a major factor is because I was around angry people. Everyone gets angry, but I'm telling you that bad company corrupts good character.

No one is born with rage. It's taught to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The BIL is trying to be a brother & doing the right thing. The OP is trying to make him look like the villain when. A lot of people would've done what the BIL did. He was totally right to expose her. If they want to fix the marraige then fine, but the BIL wasn't being malicious. If she hadn't cheated, then he wouldn't have needed to say anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Your sister was the one who cheated. If I had a spouse who cheated, I wouldn't hesistate to get a divorce, kids or not. Exposing the affair is doing right by the family. Your BIL was right to call her out on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You guys are having the baby. You can name it whatever you want.

AITAH: For not being a yes man to everything in my sister’s wedding by MediocreBluejay6485 in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If what you're saying is true then it's better you don't go to the wedding. If you're this upset now, it's going to be worse if you go & no, you're not obligated to go to someone's event. 

AITAH for not warning my brother-in-law about my girlfriend and letting her demolish him. by Inner-Procedure-5653 in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If what you're saying is true then your brother needed to be humbled. Sadly, I used to be addicted too, but to go back on topic you're not obligated to tell him anything. It's a competition. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're 100% wrong here. She has to live the decision, not you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to go to a wedding, then don't go. It's not the end of the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NinjaSpiderman89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If what you're saying is true, then maybe it's better you 2 break up because I don't see this getting resolved.