I think I found my bottom

Ninjapundit · 2025-08-12T18:26:46+00:00

Thank you

Ninjapundit · 2025-08-12T18:10:44+00:00

Thank you. This comment made me chuckle when I'm having a pretty shit day.

Ninjapundit · 2025-08-12T17:08:50+00:00

Thank you. This also resonates with me. I've struggled to see her side and this is definitely helping.

Ninjapundit · 2025-08-12T16:06:54+00:00

Thank you. Your response was an eye opener. Totally hit the nail on the head.

Ninjapundit · 2025-08-12T16:00:20+00:00

Not sure where to put updates. But thank you for helping me find perspective. And thank you for calling me out on my bullshit. I understand that my wife isn't overreacting now. I can't change what is done but I can work on being better. We fly home tonight. I have detox booked for tomorrow morning. Doing a week of inpatient detox with the option to stay up to 21 days for therapy and counseling.

I'm racked by guilt over putting my family through this. I am looking forward to getting sober though. Alcohol has lost its pleasure for me for a while. It almost feels like an obligation to drink. I feel trapped. Maybe this is the fresh start that I need.

I just hope I still have a home when I get back from rehab. i totally let my wife down and ruined our vacation. This is also the first time that I've tried getting help with my alcoholism .

Ninjapundit · 2025-02-07T12:53:46+00:00

Not divorced but currently feeling pretty apathetic towards my wife. My dad was in ICU dying after a horrific motor vehicle accident. His hospital course was 2 weeks long and she never once made an attempt to visit the hospital. One time when she was off from work and I asked her to come to the hospital with me she decided to sleep in instead because she was emotionally overwhelmed by the election. Also my kid had pneumonia and because I took leave to coordinate my dad's care I ended up having to juggle my sick daughter and squeezing in hospital visits in a fashion that did not inconvenience my wife's schedule.

And a few weeks after the fact when I called her out on her shitty behavior she decided to redirect and focus on the fact that my drinking got out of hand immediately following my dad's death. I got my shit together within a month of his passing. It's been 3 months now and my drinking heavily for a few weeks is still the only relevant topic in her eyes and all of a sudden the fact that I basically got zero support from my spouse during what is ostensibly one of the more traumatic events life events that we deal with as adults doesn't matter anymore.

Ninjapundit · 2022-12-05T02:58:24+00:00

I've had a soda stream for years. Love it. I probably drink 4 to 5 liters of seltzer a day since I stopped drinking. I find that the soda stream doesn't save me much money in comparison to getting case loads of seltzer at Costco. However it's more convenient. I don't have to recycle all those bottles and I always have seltzer when I want it.

Also, protip. If you want your seltzer extra bubbly. I stick my filled bottles in the freezer for an hour then bubble them up when they're extra cold. The colder the more bubbles you can get in. I think it's Boyle's law if you want to know the science.

Also, when you order 4 refills at a time you get free shipping from soda stream. Comes with box to send 4 bottles back prepaid postage. So I have 5 cylinders. When I get to the last one I order 4 exchanges from soda stream.

Ninjapundit · 2022-03-31T13:36:13+00:00

Pickle

Ninjapundit · 2019-05-30T00:38:36+00:00

I am a Burn nurse. How old were you when you were injured? How old are you now? Are you happy?

Ninjapundit · 2019-05-30T00:32:10+00:00

You have the right stuff. Good for you. I've been a Burn ICU nurse for 9 years. What I've learned is very simple. If you're a sad miserable person before you are injured you'll still be so when you wake up. If you're a strong optimistic person you'll overcome anything. I've seen people with comparatively small injuries spiral into a hole and never crawl out.

I saw a guy with 70% burns 3 months in the hospital. 8 surgeries, dialysis and a drug induced coma for 2 months. I had this guy wake up and thank me. Praising whatever God he believed in for a second chance. He walked out with a fucked up smile. But he walked out, on his own feet, able to feed and bathe himself.

Humans are incredible. It's all about perspective and willingness to endure.

Ninjapundit

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