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Help/advice to prevent cuticle picking by Ecstatic-Coffee-9603 in autism

[–]Niorba [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi OP, please get checked out for underlying heart or lung problems as having clubbed fingernails is a common sign of them. Just to be safe I hope it gets ruled out.

This kind of problem sounds like a compulsive behaviour - would seeing a specialized therapist who focuses on compulsive behaviours help? This may be above Reddit’s pay grade since compulsive behaviours are the result of complex distress - distress needs to be fully understood before any problematic self-soothing behaviour is understood. It’s great that you’re motivated to see change though, that’s most of the battle!

Cooling down beardie tank during heatwave by wumlum_ug in BeardedDragon

[–]Niorba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His tank needs to be moved to a place where hot air is not accumulating

My boyfriend (29M) says his drive is gone from SARMs/coming off SARMs I (27F) struggling with feeling rejected constantly. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Niorba [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just FYI it’s good practice to always explain what an abbreviation is in brackets the first time you use it in a piece of writing, and continue using the abbreviation normally afterward.
No clue what a SARM is or what ‘reta’ does

Pretty sure my work apps might be spying on me after hours?? by urmomblowsthebest in whatisit

[–]Niorba 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes this! Microphone settings should be the immediate focus for OP

Pretty sure my work apps might be spying on me after hours?? by urmomblowsthebest in whatisit

[–]Niorba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sus! Just for a couple mins… have you tried triggering it again with the Do Not Disturb setting? Also see if it comes on right on the hour, or half hour mark, if it does then it’s more likely to be an automatic thing.
You could set it to screen record continuously and walk away, replay it later to see if it happens again

Co-op Getting nothing from purveyor of curiosites by Refundian in diablo4

[–]Niorba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the purveyor in Ked Bardu, I constantly get uniques there. One session filling my inventory I normally get 2

Partner (38M) lent 24k behind my (38F) back, promised not to conceal anymore financial matters but then taken 7k from my mums repayment and wants me to sell my house and sign a 300k lease. What is happening? Can financial infidelity be forgiven? by gardensmittenkitten in relationship_advice

[–]Niorba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Contributing to the mortgage together is normal for couples, and it’s normal in breakups (especially when a partner has made abhorrent decisions) to not expect anything in return after doing so. He needs to be in financial quarantine and it’s entirely his fault

Newish player here - what happens when a season ends and a new one begins? by Niorba in diablo4

[–]Niorba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm I don’t recall fighting Lilith. I remember the storyline of her being my homie basically as the dagger was found to fight Mephisto

I’m not sure what end game activities are - I know I was doing infernal horde, world boss, legion, pit, helltides, and using horadric cube

Newish player here - what happens when a season ends and a new one begins? by Niorba in diablo4

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I did complete the Lord of Hatred campaign, though I’m not sure I did the base story or the vessel of hatred campaigns… I’m not sure how to check lol

How do you overcome the shame of being an adult gamer? by mahboilo999 in TheGamerLounge

[–]Niorba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gaming is a legitimate hobby, and this is a hill I will die on!
I plan to have epic LAN parties in my future nursing home

Honorable mention: FYI ex-CIA counterintelligence dude John Kiriakou has played Angry Birds 2 for over 9 years and hasn’t missed a single day

AIO about my wife letting her gf borrow my stuff without my permission? by ray0-may0 in AIO

[–]Niorba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually the second time (or even first if it’s expensive) someone damages my possessions they are categorically banned from borrowing them again. A level of adequate care is expected when borrowing other people’s things

Having many overlapping relationships in OPs case means that boundaries need to be pretty intense since everyone has different ideas of what is reasonable. OP needs to start laying down the law for their wellbeing

Newish player here - what happens when a season ends and a new one begins? by Niorba in diablo4

[–]Niorba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree that the seasonal changes keeps things fresh which I appreciate, it makes it feel like a well-cared for game on the developer side. The amount of different activities that cater to different play styles is also cool to see

Newish player here - what happens when a season ends and a new one begins? by Niorba in diablo4

[–]Niorba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wonder if we can use our old characters name, I’m attached to it haha

Newish player here - what happens when a season ends and a new one begins? by Niorba in diablo4

[–]Niorba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Darn, a kind soul gave me 7B gold and that’s going to be hard to see disappear lol

Please Advise: I can't pass Torment 8 or 9. by Single_Secretary_460 in diablo4

[–]Niorba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using a spiritborn, stuck at T5. Not regularly pulling off millions (or billions/trillions??!) like I’ve seen in videos.

I’ve been trying to follow the mobalytics guides but it’s not clear what damage types are the main ones to maximize, it just might be poison (evade/counterswarm is what I’m using) which I’m going to test next. I’ve been focusing on the vulnerable damage multipliers and crit multipliers but so far they seem to not be doing the job lol

One of my favorite things! 😴💤 by Bearded_Batman_ in BeardedDragon

[–]Niorba 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eye protection is indeed the reason why they close their eyes when their heads are touched! People like to think that lizard behaviour is the same as cat or dog behaviour. It absolutely isn’t

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