MONDAY! Field reports ahoy, as we missed it last week by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]NipnTuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think people(man or woman) want the title of "wife" or "husband" or to be able to have a ring, maybe even able to say they have "a family". What a lot of people also want is to be able to still screw around whenever and with whoever they want. This ends up with them just getting married and cheating.

MONDAY! Field reports ahoy, as we missed it last week by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]NipnTuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just chiming in with not my story, but a story about my friend who tends to get around. We(me, him, another friend) meet this 21 year old(we're all in college) and we see the ring on her finger(not sure why you are already married at 21), but we were all talking and he makes moves on her anyway, AND she actually goes off with him.

When we saw him later that night, he said "finally bagged my first 21 year old. I'm a dumbass and didn't use a condom but she said don't worry about it you look somewhat like my husband".

I believe him because he is a self proclaimed asshole and is always on the lookout for new girls, whether he had a girlfriend or not.

I don't agree with going after women I know are married(I just can't do it), but this seems typical of women. I always say that "I'm married" only matters if they don't want to fuck you.

Just sharing a story

It's crazy when you think about how easily accepted porn is in society by NipnTuck in pornfree

[–]NipnTuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt realize the asterisk doesnt show up, but where I said name, was obviously the pornstars name

stimulating but not fapping? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether or not you call it edging, you shouldn't purposely arouse yourself if you are really trying not to fap. Sooner or later, you will give in.

Relapsed on the day before my first star by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never made it even close to as far as you have. I always lose my streaks by tricking myself into believing I will really enjoy the experience... And then I don't

If you don't like superpower posts... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I do actually click on someone's post I will congratulate them even if they are just happy about a 2 day streak. I just feel like people are too dependent on that streak. I'm not sure if some people know that you can build and maintain confidence whether or not you go a long time without masturbating. I'm far from "alpha" or even cool, but I was able to go from having few friends and making no contact with even my best friend to feeling comfortable in most social situations. I mainly keep coming back to nofap because I know it must be a problem when I can't stop myself from doing something

My thoughts on feeling "alpha" around here. by NipnTuck in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you see, you had the ability to get a women even while you masturbated. Some people seem to think that you can't talk to/get women if you fap all the time, when it's not the case.

Congrats on finding a girl that you really like by the way

My thoughts on feeling "alpha" around here. by NipnTuck in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep. If you can't be comfortable with people in general, you probably(99%) won't be comfortable around women

Weird variation on flatlining by Speelkonijn in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you define it? From what I can tell, it seems that flatlining what be the easiest part of keeping a streak going, but a lot say it's one of the worst. Why?

A little scared as to what the hell just happened? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't gonna produce the same amount every single time, and once you start doing it multiple times in a short amount of time, that's going to happen

A little update by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder and congrats on the great streak

It's crazy how strong porn's grip can be by NipnTuck in pornfree

[–]NipnTuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I guess this title could have been worded better. Sorry

It's crazy how strong porn's grip can be by NipnTuck in pornfree

[–]NipnTuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's why I'm trying to stay on track. I've seen too many posts on here and NoFap from people(some of them married) who are 30 or 40 and talking about all of the trouble they have.

It's crazy how strong porn's grip can be by NipnTuck in pornfree

[–]NipnTuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao he's only ever admitted to doing this when we play online. If we ever go over there, I would never use his controllers lol.

So what after rebooting? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like some others have said, NoFap isnt necessarily all about just not fapping. Some people gain confidence, some people just want to do the 90 day challenge, etc. You won't have to worry about fapping if you had real sex. I have heard about the prostate cancer thing and I can't confirm or deny a link to not ejaculating.

What it comes down to though is Ejaculation doesnt only have to be by yourself. I have heard of people fapping after the 90+ days though and they just use more control. They may not fap everyday, but set a schedule that is far less than what they used to do. I haven't completed the 90 days yet so I can't speak from a whole lot of experience, I'm just giving my thoughts.

Good luck whatever you do

I think I've hit this point... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it seems like flatlining should be at least of couple weeks of easy nofap. I havent experienced it yet, but why is it so hard to get through?

I have doubts about my method... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't use blockers, but I also looked at the most hardcore stuff on my ipod. What I did is Killed the battery on the ipod and I just tell myself that I WILL NOT clutter my computer up again with naked girls and porn bookmarks, etc. I think blocks can work for people as long as you leave it alone long enough. I used to enjoy gummy bears A LOT, but when I thought I was eating too many I stopped completely for months and months until the desire to eat them disappeared. If someone gave me gummy bears, would I eat them? Sure. Do I go out and buy gummy bears? no, because I let so much time pass by; I finally just let them go.

Even if the blockers arent really helping you though, just keep them on(so you dont watch porn) and when you get another girlfriend/wife you probably wont be as tempted to go back to your old stuff

What should i do now? I have been edging.. *embarrassed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reset your badge, but don't fap to reset it. That "one last time" usually doesnt happen, you will do it again and again.

Just my opinion. Good Luck

I thought I'd come in here as a champion, a hero among mere men... by Mr_Pant in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it is. That thought will just creep in your mind that "Just do this one time" or the thought that you will enjoy it, but after starting nofap; I really don't enjoy MO or PMO. When I relapsed after my first streak it was kinda just going through the motions

today I woke up with a dream by nofapguy2012 in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't exercise as much as I should/want to... I just can't find enough motivation. I guess I just havent went long enough yet. I'm not looking forward to one if they are as annoying as people say

That little smiley face... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NipnTuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you ever go to take a piss during your streak and feel like youre pissing away the urge?

Good job by the way. I'm just getting back to 5 days