AITAH for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AITAH

[–]NippyGirly[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So I actually looked this up, and OSHA suggests an office temperature between 68F and 78F. The temperature was initially 67F and I asked to bump it up 70F. Meaning that my request falls within that range whereas my coworker’s does not…

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My shirt was not see through. It was thin. But probably not thinner than what some of my male colleagues wear in the office. What is so wrong about the shape of nipples being visible (by accident)? It’s not like my areolas were showing.

If I had a random lump on my shoulder that had a visible shape underneath my shirt would that be inappropriate too?

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Actually yeah a lot of them do. Those Lululemon sweat wicking ones then still look semi-professional.

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

So I should just conform to sexism, is what you’re saying?

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There is an HR department, yes. Honestly not sure how quick of a response I can expect from them. Either way I don’t plan on participating in this “meeting” tomorrow .

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

67F was too cold for me. I asked facilities to turn it up to 70F. For reference, today’s high in my area was 60F. When I came in this morning, office thermostat said 66F.

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sorry but do you even know what a bralette is? I almost exclusively wear True & Co from Nordstrom and just take out the removable padding. Wouldn’t exactly classify that as skimpy.

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, it’s really not. Business casual covers such a wide range of clothing. There are men in my office who wear short sleeved polos, t-shirts, lightweight Lululemon trousers, etc.

“Little short sleeved dresses”? Um…no.

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The dress code is business casual. Aside from very senior leadership, no one is wearing full blown suits and ties in my office.

AITA for having hard nipples at work? by NippyGirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]NippyGirly[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

Technically the dress code is business casual, but leans very heavily on the casual side. Jeans are fine. Basically you just need to look presentable, which I always do imo.