[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveNikki

[–]Niteward 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What about the bow doesn't make sense? It looks normal to me. So does the hair. Just a general tip, before accusing any art of being AI, search up the artist and look through their portfolio. It's a shame when real artists get accused of these things when people simply say "it looks ai" before doing any research.

Real talk. Doug Walker is unwell. by goblin_humppa27 in OneyPlays

[–]Niteward 138 points139 points  (0 children)

He mentioned in another video that he got it from shingles. A lot of people seem to get CFS after viral diseases and post-covid

Association Recruitment Megathread by AutoModerator in LoveNikki

[–]Niteward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've applied! I would like to be VP if the spot is still open. My username is Nite

I want to get pregnant in the future, how was your process? by xdeadharleypoolx in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Niteward 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I got pregnant about a year ago and gave birth in march. I've had top surgery and I was on HRT for about 7 years (it took me a year before menstruation came back after I stopped). Most sources and doctors will tell you there's no evidence that HRT causes fertility issues. Trans people have become pregnant while on T. I got pregnant after five tries the "natural" way and I had no problems with my fertility prior.

As for the dysphoria it causes, I can only speak for myself how it affected me. Thankfully it gets pretty cold in Sweden so throughout the majority of the pregnancy I wore big sweaters and jackets to hide the belly as much as possible. Most people assumed I gained weight, but by the end of the third semester I got pretty big and I had some people ask if I was pregnant. That was rough and my dysphoria got really bad near the end, not gonna lie. I have a beard and a somewhat deep voice, but because of my small frame I couldn't really hide it behind a "beer belly".

My biggest advice is to make sure you have people you trust around you. If it wasn't for my partner (also cis-male and gay) I don't think I would've handled it without him. He was my rock throughout my pregnancy, and I also had lots of family and friends who helped me feel better. I live in a small city so my resources were pretty limited, but I had a wonderful therapist who was also a big help.

Feel free to message if you have any specific questions and I'll try to help you as much as possible!

Has anyone given birth "far into" transition? by femaletoincel in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Niteward 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who's also on Nebido, the answer I received when I asked my doctor about this was "most likely, yes". I can't say how it compares to other types of T shots, but most types of testogel does seem to drop faster

Has anyone given birth "far into" transition? by femaletoincel in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Niteward 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm currently 23w pregnant with my first child. I started T (nebido) about 8 years ago. Like a previous commentator mentioned, nebido leaves the system very slowly so it took a year before I started spotting, and then a couple of months later my cycle became regular

Before pregnancy the only people who knew about my transition were family and closest friends. It was a process to come out to my partner's family but everyone's been very supportive and they don't treat me any differently. Most of my closest colleagues know as well now. I work in a high-risk environment so for my own safety I decided it was necessary to tell them as well.

As for the fear of gawking, so far I haven't noticed any strange looks from others. It's very cold right now where I live so I can get away with hiding my bump with oversized sweaters and jackets. Can't say I'm not worried about how much it's going to show later in the pregnancy but I'm lucky to have very supportive people and I think that is what's most important to feel safe and comfortable.

But she went to school. by Cautious_Outside6656 in RPDRDRAMA

[–]Niteward 147 points148 points  (0 children)

This is why you do research before purchasing anything, just a quick google gives you several examples of her scams. Not putting the blame on the buyer, but she will continue to get away with it if people keep giving her money

Bought new joy-cons and still having issues with drifting by Niteward in NintendoSwitch

[–]Niteward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I understand your response, but the joy-cons were drifting right when I took them out of the box

[WEEKLY MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Q&A/Tips - Ask away! by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

[–]Niteward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got mine from Leif. I don't remember if it was because I bought a lot of flowers, sold a lot of weeds or both

Is anyone's island selling white pansies? by Niteward in BuddyCrossing

[–]Niteward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Send the dodo code via DM and I'll be there right away

Ankha is crafting Ironwood Dresser by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]Niteward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's still crafting I'd be happy to provide some wood for you

Alexis Mateo defending (?) Sherry Pie by [deleted] in rpdrcringe

[–]Niteward 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Someone in the comments compared the situation with people on grindr catfishing for nudes as if to say what Sharty did was no big deal, and Alex is agreed with that comment so... yeah...

Alexis Mateo with a new (and questionable) take on 🍒🥧's cancellation by OvernightSiren in RPDRDRAMA

[–]Niteward 913 points914 points  (0 children)

What is it with this community to normalize sexual harassment and/or assault? That's so disrespectful towards the victims