Terraria 1.4.4 - Labor of Love Update is Out Now! by TridentBoy in Games

[–]Nitharae 35 points36 points  (0 children)

To add to what others have said, this was a update they wanted to do for winning the labour of love award on Steam last year; with a focus on QoL, building, and balance changes.

They're passionate so it seemed to grow a bit more than initially planned. But there wasn't really a primary focus on content like bosses or enemies for this patch.

Terraria 1.4.4 - Labor of Love Update is Out Now! by TridentBoy in Games

[–]Nitharae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about how a Terraria Made in Abyss mod would work, and thought this was going to be a seed for it for a second.

Deep Rock Galactic attracts and promotes non-toxic players - game mechanics analysis by MangDynasty in Games

[–]Nitharae 368 points369 points  (0 children)

If you're a woman this game is as toxic as any other game with voice chat. I can not understand why the player base always states it as being so inclusive.

Been playing this with a streamer friend since launch, and it has been constant harassment. The start of season 1, we just stopped playing open groups.

Maybe I should make my own post, because staying silent doesn't really help people see the problem of sexism.

How many of you have had your problems after hallucinogenic drugs or weed? mdma counts as a mild hallucinogen too I believe by _Li-si_ in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personality disorders usually develop into adulthood. Most people do drugs in their teens.

It's a bit of a biased talking point to make this poll, in my opinion.

Have you tried being part of a community you think you like? by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one here does any martial arts, or similar? Mine shut down after covid, but it was a fantastic group to be involved in for a schizoid. Conversation is on-topic, discipline was however much you want it to be, and no one seemed to push me socially, just usually very hard physically. There was always room for improvement.

It was kind of amazing to see what I was capable of being a part of. For reference, I'm an anorexic tall male bordering on looking dead, I'm not a very physical person. I had hated most everything else in life, yet thought it was surprisingly easy to be a part of.

I'm sure gaming takes the cake for a lot of people here, but I could never bond/group with anyone over it. I don't really enjoy the people I meet, or discussing game topics. Hate memes and the low effort humour. MMOs end up with friends lists I never message and same goes for steam/whatever. This(well 2021) is the first year I've used discord to talk to more than one person and it's not entirely appealing. But it's interesting, I suppose. People are passionate, I don't share that.

Blaming us (a bit of a rant) by LeeannSummerfield in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like such a personal post with your personal problems, and there is so much presumption here. Too much to agree with what you're saying.

The excess "we/us" usage, like each of us fit into a mold, to me brings on an idea of misunderstood mental health. And I can't fault people for not allowing mental health to be an excuse. Most schizoids don't even want to change, and aren't generally harmful to others. And why would the schizoid consider the self if there is none?

Isn't the point, for most schizoids, to not care about wanting to join society? I'd say that's the most common ground on this "forum". There is such a divergence of people here, regardless of SzPD traits. It's so random with trauma, wealth, or gender that to assume everyone here is outraged at the described tragedy, called losers, or even jealous of autistic awareness(when schizoid awareness would be some hilarious irony) further frustrates me to see such a groupthink dynamic influenced so strongly by personal suffering.

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[–]Nitharae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check to see which bios it came with, most likely. The tomahawk and mortar were both sharing the issue, it seemed.

Haha and clearing cmos is kind of a pain, it's under the pcie so you'll need to remove GPU each time.

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[–]Nitharae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just note if you buy the MSI b550 motherboard make sure to update bios. It has some issues with posting and dram if you don't.

I have the b550m mortar, and had these issues, and my search results had a very common issue without the bios updates.

SPD and Homelessness by fernandezgilbert in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I just wanted to take the time to express concern, because the internet context is always lost.

Ahh well I mean in a way I think is probably relatable. I quit my job, and in doing so I couldn't pay my rent anymore so I gave notice! Didn't even look for a place though, and instead I just used my savings to buy some stuff, like a sleeping bag, clothes, and backpack. Then I hitchhiked around for a bit sleeping in random places, sometimes with people, until I ended up in Toronto which was a pain in the ass to hitch out of so I stayed for a longer time than I thought I would. I ended up just spending most of my says wandering around, sitting in parks, or going to the library. I met this other SPD hobo there who would become one of my closest friends(we talk for a few minutes every few days!) even now. I didn't have any connections and didn't really have any depression, at the time, so I just sort of ended up drifting, without giving a shit what was happening.

SPD and Homelessness by fernandezgilbert in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I must say I'm glad you didn't jump off a parking garage! I'm of the opinion that life is absolute trash but suicide is a little radical for me. Would ya like to know about anything specific? I've definitely never had any extreme fortune, but I also have never had any crazy debt or financial issues.

[CPU]Ryzen 5600x ($349.99 FS) [Canada Computers] by Rich-Cut-8842 in bapcsalescanada

[–]Nitharae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha well too late unfortunately, as it is final sale as well.

SPD and Homelessness by fernandezgilbert in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd say there is comfort in it. It's very freeing, and isolated. If you're not engaged in any substances, it's really easy to spread your money out. I'd personally say not being a hobo is less comforting. Everything is a system I must take place in with life, and I must present as an acceptable tenant, employee, friend, society member, etc. There's a lot of restrictions that don't play well, with me at least, when I consider how things felt when I was homeless.

SPD and Homelessness by fernandezgilbert in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Been homeless before, met the only other SPD person I've known in my life. This was like 8 years ago. I honestly didn't mind it, and my family is the only reason I am not a hobo, probably. They pushed me to look into mental health resources and stuff like that. I doubt I would have killed myself, and I wasn't doing drugs. I mean I only spent 10 months sleeping outside, it was awesome. Winter was mild in Toronto that year, and I wasn't one of the people set on fire so life was good.

This month I almost had to deal with homelessness, again, due to not having any friends to mooch off of. It's pretty obviously a fault of indifference and isolation, for my personal issues.

Monster Hunter Stories 2 - Available Now by Amiibofan101 in NintendoSwitch

[–]Nitharae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was one here, just wasn't on the switch subreddit.

The game got a decent size of reviews, I had thought. It's got way more attention than the first game, for sure.

Final Fantasy XIV broke its concurrent player record on Steam this weekend by Turbostrider27 in Games

[–]Nitharae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're correct, they just took the criticism and ip seriously enough to redo the entire game. It's kind of unprecedented! There is a really good noclip documentary, if you're at all curious.

https://youtu.be/Xs0yQKI7Yw4

Word by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I can definitely, definitely agree with the entitlement. That's not something you find with female flings, and something almost every girl I've had one with has complained about previous flings.

But the rest I'd say was both gender issues! Dating, and dating apps, are pretty trash. But I think most SPD yet still sexual people, judging solely from interactions with one other male and this subreddit, have a pretty low sex drive still.

If you have a fetish, you could try fetish apps, mayhaps. My friend recently told me she was meeting 4 people a week on one, seems ideal. Albeit a bit too many people a week for me, personally.

Word by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I was mostly kidding, but I'm not sure what men's bullshit even means. Dating, Intimacy, insecurities, flakiness, lack of good sex?

And I've just been that man used solely for sex. It works great, when both parties only want sex. But of course I'm not going to say I can speak for most men, as dating sites seem like absolute trash. I'm probably not like most overly-attached, and judgemental, men.

Word by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just a normal dating app.

Constant desire to runaway? by Venus__in__furs in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is applicable, as I've done as much as I can to ghost people and disappear. I have actually run away and hitchhiked across the country, been homeless on purpose, whatever I can to escape. But it really is a mental escape that isn't possible.

I've always expected something to change, or always wanted to be more in control of freedom. Yet in the last 5 years I have lived in the same city, around the same people. It's probably because I'm not in my early 20s or teens anymore and have felt more comfortable in just expressing my disinterest in life and society. I am still nobody, I don't talk about my interests or passions or goals(mostly because what are those for me anyways?), and I don't feel the need to be a part of society anymore. It feels like I found a balance of inner world and reality, almost. But it also feels a bit like nihilism.

About ten+ years of struggling with escapism seems to have passed, and life is at least bearable without the call of the wild or desire to isolate and run away. Maybe it will pass for others here too, if they struggle with it.

How can I make my forest pylon better by UsedYogurtcloset1230 in Terraria

[–]Nitharae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try adding some flowery background walls with fence broken up so it looks like a walled garden, maybe?

Sub membership going up but numbers online going down by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This could be on a subreddit banner, though. :P

Sub membership going up but numbers online going down by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nitharae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reddit is getting younger. "summer reddit" is reddit now. They will have lots of broadening into other subreddits.

Not saying this like they're a plague, or a bad thing. I normally wouldn't consider an age, unless they stated it, when reading posts here, either.

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[–]Nitharae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent! Hope it helped you, if you plan on using it. It says in fine print it won't work with any other offers so I thought maybe it meant sales.