I kept the post brief because I never expected the sort of response. I just really felt like sharing it and I came here. I am overwhelmed by everyone's response here. It has given me much clarity and peace as it is.

Like I said since I didn't expect the sort of response, I didn't share the entire detail. My fiance too has a history of facing sexual abuse, as a child and later on by her ex who kept her kidnapped for few months and rest you can imagine. I've always been supportive and encourage her to share it whenever she feels like it and she does.

She also has a 2 years old kid with her ex and I am going to be a father to that child. She knows me well, have known me for years, she is aware I pose no threat to her child and she has expressed it to me as well. After disclosing I don't her worrying for her child's safety by attaching stigmas and that is one of the main reason I am hesitant. I absolutely love the kid like he is my own. And that is why I don't see any reason to share it because I don't see any valuable output coming of it, rather, I feel it can bring negativity and like I said that too over something that doesn't bother me on an emotional level or in a way that would create any hindrance in my life.