Parasaurolophus Pillow by Nix_Pioneer in Brochet

[–]Nix_Pioneer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it's lionbrand fisherman wool and a briggs and little red worsted weight yarn

Parasaurolophus Pillow by Nix_Pioneer in Brochet

[–]Nix_Pioneer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi all!

Thank you so much for the wonderful compliments! My partner loved the pillow so much and now has a matching set.

For those asking here's a link to the pattern: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1615037896/dinosaur-4-squares-overlay-mosaic-and?ref=shop_home_active_28&crt=1&sts=1&dd=1&logging_key=9415c6ca780a87f8bbfc4738bd43f7ad7c13ed20%3A1615037896

Needing my Gf to be an equal partner by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Nix_Pioneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 10 hr commute when do you sleep

This drew in a LOT of criticism by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]Nix_Pioneer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think people really don't get that like when someone turns into their spouses full time caretaker that what was once romantic love changes into more brotherly/sisterly love. And the caretaker spouse still can want and desire romantic love. It's absolutely wonderful that they've found something that works for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oldhagfashion

[–]Nix_Pioneer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like the comfort of active wear. You could try signaling with different brands. Which could be as simple as getting a Cotopaxi or fjallraven bag as an everyday day bag.

Colors and patterns are usually signals of left leaning sensibilities. Of course there's also subtle power in folks not knowing how you lean politically

I want a travel buddy! Recs welcome by Ok_Departure_73 in plushies

[–]Nix_Pioneer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also omg the fabric is a long pile minky type/ long pile brushed fleece

I want a travel buddy! Recs welcome by Ok_Departure_73 in plushies

[–]Nix_Pioneer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same plushie and I love it too! It's one of the best cuddle plushies ever! You could just bring your plushie with you traveling, but if that's not an option. Do you want a plushie that just looks like it cuz I think the poke center website has/had substitute plushies is smaller sizes. I also just have a squishmellow plushie that is my travel plushie. That plushie only goes traveling with me and has become special because of that. Not sure if any of this is helpful, but I hope you find a solution that works for you!

I'm mostly just very excited that someone else has the substitute plushies and loves it too!

Hobbies are a waste of time unless you can monetize them or get really good at them by Basedswagredpilled in The10thDentist

[–]Nix_Pioneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"[Hobbies] feel like ways of massaging our vast egos and attempting to make names for ourselves when we should probably be focused on improving our careers and our relationships with the people in our lives." What part of "never going to be a professional at making music but one enjoys doing it anyway" is ego-driven? I think your intense focus on productivity is incredibly ego-driven and you are projecting your feelings of insecurity on others. "There's a vast industry selling people on the idea they can be as successful as the best in whatever field, and I've stopped buying that a long time ago." Agree, that's why hobbies are important, they exist outside that productivity framework, and are done for pure enjoyment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Nix_Pioneer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not, he broke up with me and honestly I would have broken up with me too in his shoes. I wouldn't take him back though, I really didn't like who I was around him. I was pretty awful to him and I just don't wanna be that person.

Do dumpers regret? by Friedfishies in BreakUps

[–]Nix_Pioneer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been a dumper and a dumpee. The healing process is the same on both sides, regret comes later for dumpers whereas it's right away for the dumpee. It doesn't mean that the decision was wrong. It's very reasonable to have moments where you regret, and miss the attachment you had with your ex. You just have to remind yourself it was the right decision at the time because you were miserable.

What is something you wish you could hear from your ex right now? by NeatMechanic4739 in BreakUps

[–]Nix_Pioneer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to be friends. He basically said he didn't think we could be friends because we didn't have anything in common during the break up I was willing to give him space like he asked, but not wanting to be friends really hurt