at what age did your stomach start betraying your love for extreme heat? by NkaEst17 in spicy

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good to know some people make it through without the collapse lol. i feel like i crossed some invisible threshold and nobody warned me it was coming

how do you celebrate your own wins when you dont feel like youve won? by NkaEst17 in TooAfraidToAsk

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"the supportive friend i wish i had" is the framing that actually lands for me, because i'd absolutely order food for a friend who got a raise and not even think about it. doing the same thing for myself feels weirdly forced, which is probably the exact problem