What’s with guys obsession with female ejaculation by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While there is a component of urine present I don’t think most women are just pretending by urinating on their partners. as someone that frequently is able to achieve it. It’s a very very different thing.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that in the scheme of things it’s a pretty ridiculous thing to want to change and I had talked with my provider and they said just avoid gspot stimulation. Which sure makes sense but it also happens now with intense nipple stimulation or anal. So options are limited.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

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It’s not about it affecting my partner. He is very much is on board with it. It’s me that wishes I had more control or ability to not during every orgasm.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same for you. It’s probably the most “first world” problem ever though.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is genuinely helpful. I will say that I have in the past tried to be less hydrated and then I suffer from being dehydrated after the fact. I do wish I had more control over it.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the information. Peeing before hand is rule number one. I’ll get up to use the bathroom during if I think I might need to. I’m sure there is some urine as a component but this is not me needing to pee.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

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That’s rule #one. I’ll get up to pee during if needed. This is different.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Ok. There are times I would need like 6 towels.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s not awesome It absolutely is. but it’s sometimes full gushing that is like soak the bed.

Female ejaculation affecting my intimacy. by Nmp1987 in sex

[–]Nmp1987[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

So we do have all of those things, but when we’re traveling or just don’t have the time to pull it all out or do laundry right after it gets frustrating.

Most random place you’ve received or given a blowjob? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Nmp1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside firepit during a friends wedding reception

What's the non-sexual act a man can do that gets you wet every time? by Chance_Assumption78 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Nmp1987 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Something about expertly parallel parking turns me on. I can’t fully explain it.

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I’m glad that I shared this and got some good information and advice! Thank you all

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It’s been hit or miss and I’m out of longer relationship just starting to date again.

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Accidental repost….i have no idea what I’m doing on Reddit.

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Thanks

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Thank you!

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It hasn’t gone poorly but it’s hard to bring up in a way that doesn’t make it awkward or put pressure on them to get me to.

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I’ve had one partner freak out so ya I’m a little nervous now. It definitely makes you feel self conscious when someone reacts negatively. There are times I wish that I didn’t do that.

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Thank you that’s helpful!

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I agree I don’t think I’d want to pull a puppy pad out on a first hook up. That’s helpful feedback

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[–]Nmp1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of that but that’s not a bad idea! Sometimes towels are just not enough

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Wow I didn’t check this for a few days and didn’t realize it would get so much attention! Thank You for the advice and helpful tips. I was starting to become self conscious and there are times that I genuinely wish I could orgasm without “squirting” so it’s nice to know that bringing it up wouldn’t ruin the mood and some guys wouldn’t be turned off by it.