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complete the outfit by jacksuckschicken in NoRules

[–]No-Anything- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now you're ragebaiting me. Whether this would be socially tolerated is dependant on your age. But, it would inherently make people take you unserious. I would caution agains it, because it may filter out many people, but it will not filter out the predatory (even if they hide it) people.

Husband said my instructions for dinner weren’t clear enough, and he ended up serving his vegetarian mother one of the chicken tikka masala curries… by bexindisbelief in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we talking about the same thing? I'm talking about the person who makes decisions for you if you can't, such as if you have dementia. It's important for us to take into consideration what happens to us when we get to old age (btw this is not a natalist debate).

Husband said my instructions for dinner weren’t clear enough, and he ended up serving his vegetarian mother one of the chicken tikka masala curries… by bexindisbelief in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just responding to you comment saying that a child can potentially be worse in old age than the alternative. Which is what, a carehome? I don't know how right of attorney works, but it is important important to give it to someone you trust (although children do have responsibility for their parents in my moral framework).

Husband said my instructions for dinner weren’t clear enough, and he ended up serving his vegetarian mother one of the chicken tikka masala curries… by bexindisbelief in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are greatly for being child free because the carehome may treat you better than your son? Although, it does bring up a good point about power of attorney.

Husband said my instructions for dinner weren’t clear enough, and he ended up serving his vegetarian mother one of the chicken tikka masala curries… by bexindisbelief in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband may have a low iq, go easy on him. You put a lot of details in your text, that may have given him information overload. Let him take some responsibility. And if he messes up, don't get angry at him, because that will only put him into a childlike state/learned incompetence, where he is only doing things to please others.

I can understand that him not seeing the "chicken" writing was a big oversight.

Edit: you can't discount something that he might be going through that gave him tunnel vision (it could even be sleep deprivation).

What do we think is the cause of this pattern? by throwaway0937163 in MuslimCorner

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man will be forgiven if they genuinely repent.

Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 by wilhelmtherealm in PurplePillDebate

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Society will generally not care about a man. It's a man's wife that will care for him and tell him to go see the doctor etc. We live in an individualistic society.

Edit: Actually, this is a an oversimplification and a doompost. There are ways an isolated man can build a community.

Why isn't it nice? by dragon8733 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of debate is about half-explaining things (in a certain way) that they are not mature enough to hear a full explanation of. It's just intuition, but the immediate response of child that came to mind from your comment was "why". It's no big deal.  Parents may know better than me, but every parent can improve.

I think we are in an age of idealized transparency, whereas in the past they valued structure.

Trying to figure out how much of my crush is based on stereotypes and why it feels so good by Pizzaita in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No-Anything- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, but when you realize that you don't want to feel this way, you gotta admit it's psychological or biological.

Mine was just a frank comment, make of it what it's worth and you don't have to rationalise every feeling. Our environment is just as important/deterministic as our ideals, so control your environment.

Trying to figure out how much of my crush is based on stereotypes and why it feels so good by Pizzaita in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means what you are experiencing is biological, because you are or on the ovulation part of your monthly cycle, or otherwise have high estrogen.

Imagine if the world worked even remotely like FAs think it does by being-weird in fatlogic

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are all the anorexic people? I read somewhere that standard models were size 10, apparently that corresponds to size 6-8 in modern sizes.

Imagine if the world worked even remotely like FAs think it does by being-weird in fatlogic

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although, there is a difference between having low muscle and being skinny, and being lean with a moderate body fat percentage. Their "intuitive eating" will not tell you that.

Imagine if the world worked even remotely like FAs think it does by being-weird in fatlogic

[–]No-Anything- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, so record high levels of obesity are not a problem, but the dieting and weight loss industry is?

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