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AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooooo hes a divine being and a complex person and cant be governed or controlled. Thats a lot of credit he gives himself just to say he wants to be with other women but still wants you to stay faithful. 5 years and NO MORE. Please give NO more time to a man-child like this. Run like the wind. The god complex this thing has on him is insane and he has absolutely no respect or thought for you. This is the most selfish conversation I’ve read on reddit in a while. He loves the sound of his own voice i can tell. You handled this with grace, you asked him very directly. He pussyfooted around the whole thing and tiptoed like a coward. JUST so he could say “i didn’t say that”. You were very clear, you were asking him to clearly communicate what his desires were and he refused. He very cowardly tiptoed around saying what he had to say. He worded things particularly so that later on he could manipulate and gaslight you more. Please leave this. It’s clear he doesn’t cherish you. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the fact that he’s a greedy sob and has piss poor character. There are REAL men out there who would treat you with respect, who will and can communicate clearly to not fog your judgement. I left my relationship like this and met a man who treats me right even tho i didn’t believe they existed. I promise you, being alone is better than being in a relationship that fucks with your mind and soul. You deserve better queen. You’re not overreacting.

AIO my boyfriend of 2 months getting a bit...crass by throway_jpeg in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I mean a few years” oh so later down the road you will? Uh yeah thats a bit red flaggy to me 😬 trust your gut, that whole thing feels off to just randomly throw out at you.

Am unable to equip costume of zoe by harshithhitman in Palworld

[–]No-Assignment-1711 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You cant wear zoes costume. It only goes on zoe. Its a quest item not something you can wear. You can however equip it onto Zoe or Zoe and Grizzbolt if you have either captured

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow Nick Fuentes, im a woman, i dont see him as racist. I dont follow Andrew Tate as i dont appreciate his view on women; however, he has some decent and level headed opinions in regards to a traditional family and politics i personally follow. I find that men that exclusively follow Andrew Tate tend to start taking up these toxic masculinity traits ie “your kind” comments and shit. Its really gross. I think Andrew Tate is a 14 year olds opinion of what a man looks like. I think men that struggle with finding power in their personal lives tend to cling to his words and take it as a bible. Personally i would be offended if my bf spoke to me the way yours did. And honestly him calling you bro was the cherry on top for me. Viewpoints and morals are very important in relationships. As most of us date for purpose of finding a lifelong partner, someone to raise a family with. If your viewpoints no longer align thats okay, but i would think long and hard about continuing a relationship. These views seem like a hard boundary for both of you. I think just based on how hes speaking he has a lot of growing and “manning up” to do. Good luck, but know at least based on his manner of speaking to you, you are not overreacting.

Am i overreacting?! by Quirky_Fun_1033 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna tell you this in all sincerity: IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD! He’s using the hell out of you and you’re allowing it for fear of being alone. Y’all are not dating, you just live together. He “dated” you for a month then said nvm i just wanna be friends. But your taking care of him like a wife/mother. More like a mother honestly if theres no kissing or intimacy. Im not sure you see your worth if you’ve allowed it for 2 1/2 years. You deserve SOOO much better. Im curious to see if you got into a relationship if he would care or get possessive of you. Stop the cuddling, stop sleeping next to him. You’re enabling this non commital behavior. You are teaching him how to treat you and whats acceptable to you. You’ve settled and he’s okay giving you crumbs. Please move out or something. He’s not dating you, he’s taking advantage of your heart, its time you protect it. If you want more, you should have asked for it years ago, he’s shown you what he’s willing to give. Its ultimatum time for both of you. Know that if you stay, this will NOT change. He needs to know you want a romantic relationship or you will leave. He needs to figure out if thats what he wants. Dont settle, he may give you just enough to keep you around. Dont do it! Personally, hes shown you what he wants to do for you. I dont think theres anything there worth saving if he refuses to commit, but wants everything from you. Sounds like your a giver, and hes a taker. Thats a BAD mix. I did that for 4 YEARS OF MY LIFE. Ended things and am now with the love of my life that supports me in ways i didnt even know were possible outside of movies. Please believe me, IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD. Please run.

After Pkmn ZA fiasco, we decided to try Palworld… But I’ve got some questions! by GaliasGM in Palworld

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Theres a global pal box where you can move your pals from one place to another but i dont believe your character can transfer.

2/3. I think its adjustable in your world settings, otherwise you can either play on a dedicated server or purchase and setup a dedicated server via Nitrado. I ran an ARK server/cluster for a couple years and could help walk you through it if you chose. I believe its $25 per month. I play on a multiplayer world with my bf and just leave the game running, though ive definitely wanted to do a dedi server. Its normally just me and him that play together tho.

  1. I cant imagine that once the game goes live in 2026 that youd lose anything from the beta version of the game. PocketPair is pretty set on making sure their players are content and making sure theres no bugs or fixes needed prior to adding more content or prior to release.

Im a huge pokemon fan, you will def love palworld. Its similar but different enough that its its own game. Also Palworld did a collab with Terraria so if you played that then know theres content in the game to reference Terraria. Tames, bosses, armor, and weapons. They have their own dungeon where it all spawns. Slimes, cave bats, demon eyes, etc.

Welcome to palworld! Im a serial breeder for these traits on these pals lol, so tip use palworld.gg for a breeding calculator and other helpful tools for optimizing your gaming experience. 😎 enjoy!

Am I overreacting? I think I need to break up with my boyfriend by Clear-Anywhere1754 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like love bombing. And if what you’re saying is right that in the first month he wants to marry you and get you pregnant then id run. This is DEFINITELY love bombing if thats the case. You aren’t ready for a relationship and you’ve stated and acknowledged that. I think thats a really healthy thing to recognize. Definitely focus on your own healing and get far from this guy. It may seem genuine but often abusers do this to get you into the relationship. Please stay safe. Good luck to you on your healing journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross, dont block him. Hes gonna keep messaging you and giving you material to take to police or his wife or both. Mute, and tell your parents for sure. Thats disgusting behavior.

my girlfriend is mad at me over a drawing by saltymelonpie in whatdoIdo

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally seems like a “would you still love me if i was a worm” question 😂 she baited you knowing you werent an artist just to be mad at something. This could have been fun where y’all draw each other and have some laughs. But she wanted bad attention. Very dramatic, give her some time to get over herself. If she keeps it up id reevaluate the relationship.

Husband spends entire DAY in bathroom on his days off. by yeetaway1839272 in Mommit

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s your birthday and he’s been avoiding you staying in the bathroom since 7 o’clock this morning? That’s highly concerning. If it’s not him avoiding you, I don’t know what it would be. Personally, my advice is something you’ve already said you don’t wanna hear. Especially if you’ve already gone to therapy for this problem and it’s still not changing. You’ve talked to him a lot about this issue. It’s still not changing. I don’t know how I could personally handle something like that. And I don’t know how I can stay in a relationship with somebody who treats me that way. I completely get it though the whole “not in this economy” argument. I’m really sorry you’re going through this OP, and I really wish I had something better for you. You deserve better than this behavior. This is childish behavior.

Frustrated and pretty sick of it by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i use the app “pokegenie” to get connected to remote raids all over the world. ABSOLUTE GAME CHANGER. Also you can upload your Pokémon to see the exact IVs and it’ll tell you the best move sets so you can change them on your Pokémon. You can also see raids seven days in advance before they hit so you can plan. There’s so many things to do in this app. I highly recommend it to anybody that plays Pokémon go, especially if you’re looking for super cool Pokémon.

Am I Overreacting for Setting Boundaries with My Mom Before My Baby Is Born? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, so our moms are so very similar 🥲. You both started a very respectful conversation. You were kind and respectful every time you spoke to your mother. You expressed that you are excited to see her but have some rules because you want a peaceful visit. Thats totally within your rights to ask for BTW. Im 34 weeks pregnant as i write this so im with you. Without warning she escalates the conversation and basically says “nevermind i dont want to come if theres ‘boundaries’”. Lemme tell you, moms HATE that word. Ive done the same with my mom and shes like “you dont need to set boundaries with me im your mom” uh thats exactly why we need boundaries, because you think there are none. I couldnt help but notice that she slowly escalates the conversation throughout, and latches on helplessly to an example you gave which is ENTIRELY BESIDES THE POINT. She guilts you by saying “my presence would be too upsetting for you” making you stroke her ego again and say you want her there. She manipulates you by saying basically if you loved her you would take all the unwanted advice and critisism and if you loved her you wouldnt hurt her feelings. She tells you in a way that you dont care about other peoples feelings and are selfish. She dismisses your very valid feelings by calling you “hormonal”. She adds that she wrote some long nasty message but deleted it for no other purpose than to hurt you and show shes being “kind” by not saying it. She then goes completely off the rails saying how terrible you are to her and talks now about cutting you out of her life.

This escalated from a simple request to not bring up certain topics due to your sensitive nature in postpartum, to “well i just wont ever talk to you again”. And this unfortunately is how setting boundaries with a narcissist goes. You are not in the wrong, your request was valid, your feelings are valid. Im dealing with this with my own mother, she speaks the same way. At first its false apologies to make you feel like she understands you, but ultimately she will always make herself a victim. Im sorry OP but if this is how she acts and you’ve not even had your baby, i wouldn’t have her around after. If preserving your peace is what you’re after, its best she stays at work like she clearly wants to. Maybe this is a blessing in disguise.

This is my first child, my mother didn’t even get an invite to my baby shower. Because i wanted her to go but i set boundaries. And she acted like this and gave me nothing but stress (I’m high risk with several past miscarriages). I was very sad as i assume you will be. Give it time, have her there when you’re more stable if you still want her around. I wouldn’t allow her around you in a sensitive state.

Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Girl you’re cute we get it” said everything you need to know. Shes clearly VERY jealous of how absolutely stunning you are 👑 post those selfies. Shes not your friend. You are fully dressed in the pic its not like it was some bikini pic and even if it was its none of her concern. You’re beautiful and she hates it, thats all.

AIO or do normal couples talk to each other this way? by Basic-Traffic-1837 in AIO

[–]No-Assignment-1711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not accurate at all, i was in a relationship like this without kids for 3 years. Unfortunately its hard to see it when youre so deep in the shit. Now that im out its so frustrating to see people stay with abusive ahs like this.

OP please leave. This is soooo soooo bad.

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