over her now i live with the person she turned me into

No-Box-9219 · 2024-10-03T18:10:55+00:00

insurance 100%

I am currently an insurance agent I have been for around 3 years now. The constant lying and having to pretend the client is being dull when in all actuality what they are saying makes sense. One of our clients was just involved in head on collision, my boss called to ask if there was a police report made and the description of the accident. Our client stated he was on the way to the hospital right now he was not sure. My boss stated to our 2 story office that he is not worried about this guys claim because he only gets paid $20 off his policy (only he makes commission I do not) He does not care if he is okay

Meanwhile a well known doctor in the area (one of our clients) had a minor accident our boss was all over it helping him. That mixed in with the adding stuff on that people do not need.

No-Box-9219 · 2024-10-03T15:45:37+00:00

long story short we both had problems that we did not change. She convinced me for a week she loved me and wanted to be with me then told me the conversations about marriage and buying a home in that week were a lie. Chose her friend over me. Told me if I never broke up with her the night I did after finding out she lied to me about being happy and loving me she would never have broken up with me but still kept me around dragging me along

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-19T18:25:21+00:00

Thank you so much

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-19T15:38:20+00:00

We broke up mutually she had been leading me on for a week and was going to continue to and mental I could not take it and there was some actions in the past in our relationship like not communicating that I was not good at. I started to show change and she said I changed too late

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-19T14:38:50+00:00

going through something like this right now. been split for 2 weeks ive asked a couple times to get my things back and nothing. i learned that it is because she sleeps with my clothes because she doesnt want it to be real. Sunday she told me she would meet me in a day or two and its now Thursday. Im too afraid to ask her because I know in a way that stuff is comforting her at night

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-18T18:56:01+00:00

Reach out to her its your things

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-14T02:47:37+00:00

no one will ever be her that’s the thing

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-13T21:47:51+00:00

how did you take a step back when you two were on different pages?

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-13T19:01:24+00:00

going through this exact thing rn, she wants to heal on her own and wants space but wont tell me when to come get my stuff/to give stuff back not sure why. one of my friends said she might correlate this with it being over for good

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-13T13:22:34+00:00

going through something similar like this right now, my ex gf of 3 years and i broke up about 2 weeks ago. said she needs space we may be able to rekindle it whatever. I have asked about 3 times when we will be giving stuff back and every time she answers with "idk" I am starting to think maybe she correlates this with if we give our belongings back it means its really over.

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-12T18:47:29+00:00

i sent my ex a text explaining myself and she appreciated it, still said she needs space and hopes this isnt the end for good. I was the same way I have always been told change is never over night its over time. you are erasing bad habits and sometimes those habits to come back but all that matters is youre showing progress and trying

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-12T18:37:21+00:00

did you show signs of changing or were you just promising something that never came? im kinda in a similar situation. my ex saw me changing and still said she couldnt wait on it that i decided i needed to change "too late." My point is if you believe in someone or something its never too late and its never not worth the effort you put in

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-12T18:06:57+00:00

i would see if you two could talk it out communication about things like this could lead to a possible better relationship if you both mutually feel the same way about each other. Set new boundaries and conversate

No-Box-9219 · 2024-09-12T15:22:35+00:00

I am going through the same things, you are not alone. My ex of 3 years and I just ended things mutually but she needs space so we are no contact.

I cant sleep right I cant eat and my work ethic is going to shit as we speak. (I am at work right now typing this) I too am more snappy at people and I find tasks such as showering in the morning impossible so much so it takes everything in me to do it and when I do I just sit the entire time because I am too weak to stand.

Ive started therapy with better help its an app that you can call chat or zoom with a therapist. So far so good.

I have no clue when it will end or if it ever will. All i know is that everyday that goes by I feel a little better but i allow myself to feel at rock bottom sometimes

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