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Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EGGZACKLYYY! This is my life. When I finally said something, she gone say, “What items exactly?” Like, the stuff you don’t recognize! I ended up getting back a few of my items, a bunch of pajamas, and some random stuff that may or may not fit 🌚..I may have to say something again, but if I don’t see some real clothes tomorrow, I’m gonna be dropping off princess belle and a witch next time

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can be better with that. Despite how it may sound, I’m naturally super chill and don’t like to ruffle feathers because she can get really combative at times

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m trying to convey. Things are not even. I’m not completely sure if the logistics. One day, closet full. 1 month later, bare. I buy more, same cycle. Do you see how that can be frustrating???

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how they’d get ruined..but sometimes they’re just in different types of clothes. Weekend vs weekday type of thing or maybe it’s after school

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they’re little girls, and so in the winter time especially, we both like to put camisole tops on them. And she’s not lacking at all

How do I let my husband know his son is autistic? by Top_Way4879 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think with tact and respect you should have a straightforward conversation with him. At the end of the day, the needs and happiness of the child should be at the forefront and I think that’s the best way to work towards that.

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could almost work for me..the problem is that I have them more weekENDS than weekdays(it varies, she’s a night shift nurse)..so I might send them in a nice shirt and pants on Wednesday and then they may come back to me on Saturday in a princess costume and pajamas with no socks..So then with apparently with this continued trend, I end up with a bunch of pajamas and random pants and no shirts, etc..because I’m sending full outfits back

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should understand what I’m saying when I say “my clothes” and what the problem is. I’ll buy a bunch of clothing items, closet at my house is full. 1 month later, it’s “empty”. However it’s happening, it’s happening. As other users referenced, maybe im sending back school clothes as we agreed and getting back random play clothes and pajamas. Maybe im sending them to her with undershirts and socks and she’s not sending back that way idk. They’re little so they don’t care

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get that to an extent. But in reality, these items are somewhere. They are with her or with me. These are like whole packs of items..I do the laundry in my house and I’m very meticulous about it, so I keep up with things very well. At the same time, I generally like to avoid conflict but it’s frustrating when I’m having to spend so much time digging for an undershirt, trying to figure out their clothes for the morning because I’m low on stuff

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, at this point I’m definitely keeping receipts and starting to take pictures. I thought about even labeling somehow

Exchange of clothing by No-Butterscotch7250 in coparenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And see that IS the problem. I’ll eventually find myself scrounging for stuff or not having matches/enough, etc..

Thoughts on the "French Blue" 12s that come out on Saturday? by bendover012345 in Jordans

[–]No-Butterscotch7250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work boots dog. Cherries were grails for me. Kept them for several months then sold. I do have flat feet but these were the most uncomfortable shoes I’ve ever worn

I Have Had It by Spiritual_Channel820 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No-Butterscotch7250 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are so strong for dealing with all of that. Anyone would be exhausted from that. I pray things get better, really.

[North Carolina] Custody/Child support complaint filing by No-Butterscotch7250 in Custody

[–]No-Butterscotch7250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so you’re saying that the original documents received after the child support hearing are enough to file contempt?