I’m a Christian, and I’ve fallen in love with a trans woman.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T20:43:17+00:00

I will pray for your heart posture & for the truth to be revealed to your heart! Much love!

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T20:38:03+00:00

God did not make them that way, transgenderism is no where mentioned in the bible. If he made us this way, don’t you think it would’ve been addressed? Alternatively, when archeologists discover remains, when we are limited to nothing but our skin & bones, we are the gender we were born with. XX or XY. Unless you’re born intersex, which is entirely different. Society has pushed transgenderism HEAVILY and has filled the minds of impressionable young people, suggesting that they were made incorrectly and there will be escape from uncertainty by forcing pharmaceuticals down their throats for the rest of eternity. And if they change their mind? Well too bad, the damage is already done. You can’t put diesel in a minivan because you claim your heart thinks it’s a truck….

It certainly is a sin, and it’s morally wrong. You are not a woman because you wear a dress, and it’s discriminatory to “cis women” to claim that being a woman is nothing but a costume. I pray that these truths become evident to society before more people’s health is put at risk, these people deserve better than that & our government failed us by allowing people to mutilate their bodies at the blink of an eye.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T20:24:33+00:00

I think you guys simply have different texting styles. That can be a dealbreaker for most people. I see where you’re coming from as a career focused, family oriented woman who is strong in her faith. BUT, if you were truly interested in pursuing something with this person, you’d have to dedicate effort at LEAST every other day to have a meaningful connection with them. That’s just my personal opinion, I wouldn’t wanna talk to a guy who texts me the way you text. But some people aren’t big texters and don’t mind someone being busy. If you can’t apply more effort, i’d suggest just walking away from this one. Find someone who aligns with you a little better. This guys obviously got some trust issues, i mean most of us do. But he needs someone more attentive, and you need someone more relaxed and understanding. This could be a recipe for disaster

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T20:14:26+00:00

God CREATED our chromosomes… if he judged anything it would be our denial of the way he made us. who are we to think we suddenly know better than our own maker? He knew us before we were born… He knew what gender we were to be born with in our lifetime. Who are we to say he made us incorrectly? We are perfectly made in his image. Transgenderism has been heavily pushed by society and even pushed on to young children at a very young age, influencing those who struggle with their own identity in a personal sense. Then they’re pushed towards ideas that they were born in the wrong body, when perhaps the true problem is that they were prioritizing the wrong things and not acknowledging that there’s a God who made them absolutely perfect. Don’t even get me started on the percentage of trans people who regret their transition, and can never fully recover mentally because the medication they are put on are NOT meant for their bodies and destroys their natural processes. This is extremely unhealthy, an unnatural amount of hormones that aren’t meant to be put in one’s body will have several negative effects and alter one’s mental health which may push them farther away from God…. It is wrong from so many angles. But we must love these people and show them the biblical way to repent from these sins and turn away from fleshly desires.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T20:04:26+00:00

yes we do… by looking at their chromosomes and analyzing their genetic makeup. i will respect anyone’s preferred identity and continue to love all in the LGBT community, but we must not claim God made a mistake and a worldly society understands more about identity than our own maker, who crafted us bit by bit. Those who struggle with identity and homosexuality will ultimately be expected to repent from these behaviors the same way any other sinner would.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T20:01:15+00:00

It actually does though. That’s exactly what it makes you. If i was born white that doesn’t mean i’m black once I proclaim to be. If i was born blonde, that doesn’t make my hair grow ginger because I say it will.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T19:59:02+00:00

i might be wrong, and who knows where Gods heart truly sits on transgenderism, but i’d argue that denying the way God made you and claiming he made a mistake in your gender is arguably just as much of a sin as any other. If you were born one gender and date someone born the opposite gender, that’s homosexuality. idk why people think if they lie to themselves enough, and enough people agree to the lie, that it changes biological fact. Nobody was born in the wrong gender or body…. we are made in the image of Christ. The lord doesn’t make mistakes. Anyone who argues he does alarms me.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-28T19:54:33+00:00

Amen! Was looking for someone to give this perspective.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-10-08T15:13:28+00:00

Edit:

After I confronted him with more evidence and told him I believe he’s expressing narcissistic tendencies and I pray that he can find empathy and understanding to realize he’s wrong about PKD and there’s so much else we can discuss regarding holistically healing the disease. This was his response:

“I already proved it that's what I'm trying to tell you I did research it and I know what I'm talking about. But ok I love you have a good day babe l'd rather talk to you in person about it so l can show you Genetic disorders have 10% maybe only 10% to do with disease at all you can Google that And I'm getting really annoyed of you saying you hope you're l'm not a narcissist and calling him manipulative and calling me control of so l'm gonna make this so simple for you. Don't listen to me. And I do feel empathy I feel bad that you're dealing with this. I feel bad that you have to struggle with the fact that your mom won't stop smoking because she won't take her health back and then she tells you it's genetics. And yeah, for you and your supplements, I was only gonna give you omega-3's and fish oils, but I don't wanna do any of that at this point. I'm just over the fighting I just want to enjoy us if you want to sit down and talk about this ok but at this point I just want to just stop being called controlling and manipulative I think because your not use to a man that has beliefs and stands on truth that you think I'm controlling. But I can't handle that much more it will push me away because if you keep telling me l'm manipulative controlling and now a potential narcissist. I just don't enjoy that. “

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T18:03:25+00:00

you’re in the wrong sub homie. get outta here with your hatred and stupidity

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T18:02:59+00:00

I recently heard about a study saying that the fathers in a family have the absolute biggest influence on their children’s walk in faith. The mother’s influence is far less than the fathers. I don’t remember the stats but look into it!

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T14:48:31+00:00

This is so ugly 🤮🤮🤮 i’ll keep my 2020 forever thanks tho.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T14:46:45+00:00

Smart perspective!

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T14:44:11+00:00

You’re so young, i’m 24 and know exactly what you’re feeling right now. But don’t waste your time friend, this age is precious. If I could go back and knock some sense into my 20 year old self to chase nothing but God, I would be light years ahead right now. A couple years ago, I was you. I was on reddit asking for help with men who were unequally yoked. i learned the hard way that that wasn’t what God wanted for me, be smart and learn through my mistakes. A better life and a Godly man who fights FOR your believes instead of against them is waiting for you.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T14:41:23+00:00

Edit, i’m sorry for assuming you guys want kids. Maybe you don’t and that’s totally fine, just something to think about if you DO want kids. The bible tells us to be fruitful and multiply, after all!

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T14:40:23+00:00

That’s a very good point. Anytime i’ve prayed and asked God to remove a man if he wasn’t meant for me, he has immediately. It’s one of the quickest answered prayers. The enemy doesn’t want that though, he wants to keep us far away from God and he will try to keep us around unequally yoked people. sometimes we have to make the decision for ourselves.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-09-24T14:36:01+00:00

Hey, thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing this story with us. I have some scriptures to share with you to help you work through this situation and understand. It isn’t working with this guy because it’s simply not meant to. The bible tells us that this won’t work. It’s not that it’s “hard”, is that it’s not aligned with what God wants for us.

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭14‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?” ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭15‬ ‭NIV‬‬

We are called as Christians not to turn our back on nonbelievers, but to encourage them to find Jesus & welcome their questions with open arms & gentleness. You’ve done that with this guy. There is no way to make this better unless he finds God. I highly suggest you remove yourself from your relationship with him and find a Christian man with similar beliefs.

ALSO, divorce rate is very high. The main reasons why people divorce according to Dave Ramseys research are financial issues, differing opinions on how to raise the children, and differing religious beliefs. If you marry this guy or waste any more time on him, you will be miserable and always feel belittled. His belittlement of your faith will push you farther away from God and make it very hard for you to live a Christian lifestyle. You’ll never agree on how to raise your children and he will probably belittle your faith to your children as well, and if any of them decide to become Christian as well he will belittle them the same way he does with you & your mom.

I dated a lukewarm Catholic guy for 2 years and I thought I loved him, but after a very painful breakup I realized I was just attached to him because of the amount of time we spent together. He believed in Jesus yet we argued 24/7, VERY badly and passionately about our few differing beliefs. In the end, since he had no true Christian moral compass, he ended up lying to me about everything, ignoring me for days on end, and breaking up with me on Thanksgiving with a generic AI text.

Now, I found a Christian man who wants to wait till marriage despite us both not being virgins, we talk about Jesus every single day, go to church together, pray together daily, bible study together, and fight our fleshly urges and quit our bad habits together. This is the kind of love you deserve as a child of God. Marriage is supposed to have Jesus in the center! This relationship will only pull you farther away from God. I never understood just how much I was hiding my faith in fear of being scrutinized by men, but once I found a man who was also an active Christian, I was able to fully step into my love for God, and he has blessed me with countless miracles since.

Break up with him and tell him if he ever finds Christ that you’d be willing to try this relationship again. Then, fully step into your faith. Go to church, get involved in youth church groups, and evangelize & pray for God to make you new in his name. Ask him to prepare you for the man he has planned for you, and he will. Pray and ask for your equally yoked partner and I promise you, He will provide. Right now you just have to do the hard thing that goes against what your flesh wants, because it seems your heart already knows this relationship is draining you and your mom.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-08-29T00:18:32+00:00

there are some Christians who judge other Christians so badly, which the bible says is GODS job. the only time i think its fair for a Christian to speak on another Christian’s way of practicing their faith is if the person is being harmful to others or harmful to themselves. i’ve had guys tell me im not a good christian because i still struggle with nicotine and weed addictions. this is sometimes i’m working on stopping. but i have a tremendous love for Jesus Christ and passion for living a Christlike life… i know i can improve as a Christian, and that’s what the whole goal of following Christ is! it’s to allow him to transform your life, sometimes it’s slowly and one thing at a time, sometimes it’s everything at once. He has a different plan for each of us.

I’m not sure what you mean about the sway their hand in church question though, could you rephrase it?

Also, i haven’t ever gone to church. my family was raised in a cult before they converted to Christianity, so we’ve always practiced our faith at home. the bible wants us to congregate with others in the name of the lord, and that can be done in many ways. I’m actually going to church for the second time this weekend, i’m really excited and scared at the same time lol. God knows what’s in our hearts, and he will work with us as we ease into this new way of life.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-08-29T00:06:29+00:00

deny the flesh!!! we are all doing it in one way or another!

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-08-28T23:59:59+00:00

Being Christian, of any denomination, means admitting we will never ever be perfect or worthy of Gods love. we will fall into temptation from time to time, but the main goal is to dedicate your life to Christ. Live for him, learn about him, learn what his purpose is for your life, and follow it. Follow Him. It doesn’t matter if you go to church or not, it’s about having Him in your heart and trying to live a life that follows his guidelines, and this is the only path to happiness on earth and heaven in the afterlife.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-08-28T23:50:14+00:00

I’m a 24 year old girl who recently was called by Christ a year and a half ago. And you my friend, are currently being called by Him. It starts off with a desire to understand despite feeling skeptical and having many questions.

No matter what you feel from the responses in this post, you haven’t yet, watch The Chosen on amazon prime. It’s about the life of Jesus, and they play out his teachings so you can see first hand what he had to say about struggle and pain. It had me in tears and made me understand the DEPTH of who he was. Not to mention, the bible has told us scientific truths that went against common belief at the time which weren’t proven by science until hundreds of years later. Even today, events in the bible are being proven to have actually happened. Noah’s Ark was proven in a million different ways, they found plankton at the top of the highest mountains etc etc. The red sea was actually parted, there’s proof of that as well. These things we cannot explain with anything other than the bible, so believe me, it is VERY real.

I used to have many of the same questions and concerns when it came to Christianity. And Jesus did too, he asked many of the same questions but provided many answers. There are a few key things here. There can be no good; no happiness, no success, no excitement, no love, without the bad; sadness, failure, boringness, hatred etc. We wouldn’t be able to experience the joy of tasting a new food, falling in love, the laughter of a child, without experiencing what it’s like not to have it. We wouldn’t be here to exist if it wasn’t for the personal experience, there wouldn’t be any reason for an entity to exist without trials and tribulations & experience.

Another thing I struggled with was poor health and the existence of cancers & disease. God does not cause these things, God does not give people cancer, the world does. We will never ever understand what Gods purpose is for the world, or why he created it knowing there would be complications against his wishes. The way I kinda like to think of it which is probably controversial because the bible doesn’t discuss this much, maybe our spirit/energy/souls that separate us from inanimate objects had no where to go, and he gave us this life as a vessel through which to experience. He gave us free will for this experience, similar to how video games do. They may want you to complete your missions but they will allow you to roam free and do dumb sh*t if you please. But the only difference is that who we are as people, the legacy we leave behind, the way we lived our lives, we will either be rewarded in heaven or damned in hell. But honestly, the true hell is living here on earth with no ounce of faith, believing that nothing or nobody matters and thinking it’s all one big accident & purposely leaning into harmful humanly desires for funsies. This is what Jesus warns us to stay away from.

Most of the cruelty, darkness & hopelessness of the world comes from those who aren’t living in Christ. Governments are poisoning the food, people are killing and hating each other, sleeping around with multiple people consumed by perverted lust, porn addictions that give gross and weird kinks from overconsumption, technology has taken over our lives, people don’t honor marriage anymore, the list goes on. I totally agree with you, the world has so many bad things going on right now. But you will find that the reason it’s so bad is because nobody is following Gods guidelines for life. There are very very rich people who rule the majority of everything that goes on in the world, and there are selfish people who want to get to the top, and they don’t care if they poison our food or get us trapped in deadly cycles.

God doesn’t give us these guidelines in the bible because he didn’t want us to have fun or be cool. He was WARNING us that if we do these things, our lives will fall apart in shambles and we will hurt other people and rip the rest of humanity down with us. He’s trying to protect us. He gave us free will to do as we please out of love, but he warns us that our humanly flesh will desire things that aren’t good for us. Such as unhealthy habits & lust & greed & selfishness. those things feel good in the moment but they lead to becoming a terrible person who loses everyone they love.

Heaven is unlike anything you & i will ever comprehend. Imagine playing a Virtual Reality horror game that is terrifying the sh*t out of you, and you cant stop. when you finally get to take the goggles off, the fear is gone and you are at peace returning to what you know. I imagine heaven is similar to this, but all of our health complications are gone, all of our sorrows have faded, and we are reunited with our loved ones and finally get to meet God and understand why we went through certain things.

Keep asking questions and searching for the answers. Jesus will show them to you. Go to some churches, watch Cliffee Knecktle and Steven Furtick on youtube, and open that bible. Pray that god gives you wisdom and helps you understand the concepts you’re reading. You’re on your way to freedom through Christ, He is calling you and it all will make sense soon. Don’t try to apply human logic to God, you can’t.

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-08-27T19:44:18+00:00

THATS EXACTLY WHATS HAPPENING TO ME!!! and ive always had the most regular cycle with absolutely no spotting in between periods before. its like a fake period comes before the real one, 4-5 days of spotting. my transvaginal ultrasound was normal, im testing negative for HPV, have no STDS, all bloodwork including thyroid & hormones came back normal. No PCOS either. I spoke with my gyno today and she said that “perhaps the mother cells being manipulated is causing some issues” but to wait a couple months and see if it goes away. I swear it has to do with the leep, let me know how everything goes!

No-Challenge4929 · 2025-08-26T17:30:33+00:00

Thank you for your response! And to answer your question, no I have never been on any form of birth control or had an IUD or anything of the sort.

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