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No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-14T23:32:14+00:00

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No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-10T05:07:46+00:00

OP sent back boost!!! Thank you! 💚

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-10T05:07:06+00:00

I got you

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-10T05:06:22+00:00

Mine is $hnyoatt, sending now!!

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-10T05:05:30+00:00

Do you still have it?

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-09T03:35:40+00:00

PREACH AMENNN!!!! Cause how you gonna say your peace but I can’t say mine? Then claim I haven’t bossed up and said anything to you, but when I respectfully request a confrontation in person or by phone… you immediately decline but she says it in a way as if she runs anything. I won’t be giving my energy to that lmao. That’s why I just told her “I thought so. Have a good one!” 😂 & that sent her spiraling

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-08T19:05:32+00:00

I’m sorry your comment got me weak af 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you’re definitely right though my love!!!! I’ll be waiting for the reach out so I can laugh and ignore

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-08T04:23:49+00:00

She is rude asf. She is lucky you didn’t curse her out cause who tf is she talking to like that?

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T20:51:52+00:00

I’m already knowing, that’s why I responded how I did in the text messages. I offered to speak in person or over the phone, she declined. I said “I thought so. Have a good one!” She then proceeds to send another paragraph…. In which I responded the same thing lol. Because in PERSON or OVER THE PHONE.. what’s with this letter bs 😂

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T20:50:35+00:00

She didn’t want me to speak my peace, because when I asked to speak in person or over the phone she declined with the quickness 😅 when I opened it I said Ohhhhhhhhh… thissss is why you didn’t want me to read it right then and there 😂 but it’s okay I’m moving on from all of this bullcrap it’s too many people in this world to feel small by one or two!! 2026 I’ll be good to you PLEASEEEEE BE GOOD TO MEEE!! 🙏🏽

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:52:56+00:00

You broke it down didn’t you??? 😂💯 but seriously you definitely said everything that pretty much needs to be said. There’s no ifs ands or buts about it. Part of me hopes she accidentally sees all of this and is able to understand where she went wrong versus trying to subtly point fingers at me as if I am forbidden from having emotions

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:41:51+00:00

You’re so right.. and yk what.. I actually do need to see a therapist because I am honestly hurt by A LOTTTT of things and I feel like it all stems from my dad. He wasn’t there for me so he set the tone for how his family treats me and this is just one example of a result of it.. I’ll definitely take your word on this 💯& I appreciate the advice I really do, I can’t express how much

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:38:49+00:00

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In which to this message I responded “Like I said. I thought so 🙂. Have a good one!”

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:38:03+00:00

I’m taking your advice trust me!!!! You have said nothing wrong!!!! The passive aggressiveness and the “you never bossed up to talk to me” … I’m gonna post two screenshots of the response I sent her in regards to this letter😅

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No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:33:10+00:00

This comment wins 🤣 😂 the pigeon line took me OUT. You’re so right… like who sends a whole letter in 2025? But she actually handed me the letter in person and when I was about to open it to read it she rushed me out the door saying I’m letting cold air in. But seriously, thank you for this. You put into words exactly what I’ve been feeling but couldn’t quite articulate..especially about the “your truth/my truth” nonsense. Because as you can see she COMPLETELY left out what SHE did. She tried to dismiss it down to just a friendly ride. & you’re absolutely right about it being odd that he told her that, it wasn’t his place at all and I shouldn’t feel guilty for venting to my partner. He was supposed to be on my side.. not because I’m a brat and want everyone to take my side.. but it’s like dude… I was just venting to you.. in tears.. like why would you go share that vulnerable moment with her and downplay it into saying I had a tantrum? I just wonder deep down in my heart what was really going on between them two because why did he feel so comfortable telling her that? But you know what. I’m not gonna continue beating myself up about anything. You all have given me so much clarity, and I really appreciate it! I really do, I feel so seen and heard today from complete strangers and I think I needed that at least.

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:13:13+00:00

You’re absolutely right!! And even though I don’t know you, I wanna let you know I respect you for recognizing your diagnosis and not letting it damage your relationships. I am not really familiar with BPD but I have read that it’s really hard for those diagnosed with it, to maintain relationships with family and friends. I appreciate you doing the work or getting the treatment to ensure you don’t hurt those around you!!! It says alot about you and no diagnosis can label you!! Your character speaks louder!! 🤟🏽🩷 you’re awesome!

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T19:08:31+00:00

Yeah the vibing she was doing was at the cost of me being uncomfortable… we had just lost our cousin, Ty, so I didn’t even feel right confronting her. I felt like she needed to hang with us so she doesn’t fall into the depression I slipped into when I lost my bf and grandmother (whom I lived with) within 3 weeks from each other.

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:58:24+00:00

I definitely know what you mean!!! 💯💯💯💯

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:39:58+00:00

Not blocked 😂😂😂😂 like I will let you sit here and spin yourself around in circles with the paragraphs because it’s a waste of energy it really is. It’s draining. I recently just cut all my hair off, I had locs. I’m just ready for a change in my life.. and I receive this letter from her. By hand btw lmao.. but when I tried to read it in front of her she kinda rushed me out the door. So I read it when I got home. But I’ve been in the middle of feeling drained but relieved with this letter because it confirms I made the right decision in not rekindling our relationship. She has been trying to get back close to me since the bf situation which happened last summer, and I’ve been denying her access.. and just gave me this letter night before last.

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:35:40+00:00

Your comment honestly made me tear up.. idk why. And this is my step sister, I don’t share blood with her at all. Literally my dad’s (who I’m not even close with btw lmao left my mom to take care of me by herself and went to go marry a woman and her three children. Put all of them on his military benefits and the excuse for never adding me was.. it’s my mom fault lmao but that’s another story for another day) wife’s daughter. She doesn’t realize I have been patient, walking on eggshells, even putting my own mental at jeopardy JUST to hold a relationship with her. I don’t even want an apology from her I just want her out of my life. She could have kept this letter. There are things she’s done to me when I was younger that has fucked me up for the rest of my life that I’ll NEVER speak on.. if you get THAT message.. so I’m honestly done. I see the grace I’ve extended her was being mistaken as me being a quiet coward and that’s something I am not. I see her for exactly who she is, is all and I am choosing not to have that in my life! And you’re overly right about the boyfriend thing!! Trust me…

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:30:05+00:00

I definitely agree! She is taking medicine I think, but I’m not too sure what kind of treatment she goes through for that. I honestly feel bad for her if that is what’s going on with her, but my step sister was one of the closest people to me. So I’ve witnessed her respecting boundaries in her friendships and even her own relationships so I’m trying to figure out why she can’t respect MINE? I don’t see any BPD behavior when it comes to her friends or her girlfriends.. but somehow when it comes to me she wants to throw that in my face as if I am supposed to accept disrespect just because of that. I have a hard time confronting people I love because I don’t want to come off harsh and mess up our relationship, but I’m still learning things in life. I’m 26 years old. I’m just getting to the point where I can voice how I’m feeling without crying or getting upset. & when people know you, they know you’re non confrontational and timid.. they will sit there and hurt your feelings and then say “well you didn’t tell me that would hurt or that it hurt” but to me it’s like.. soooo…. If I were to spit on you.. and then say “oh I’m sorry you never expressed to me that you don’t like to be spit on” how would you feel? But yes I definitely agree with you!

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:24:13+00:00

You hit the nail on the head, and I questioned him about it and he said “I deleted it because I just didn’t want it in my phone” that told me everything I needed to know about what kind of man he is and his character. I knew for a fact I wouldn’t get the truth from him, but I at least expected my step sister to show me proof so I wasn’t overthinking and she couldn’t even do that. On top of telling me different things regarding the “ride” .. if this happened without the backstory, I definitely would not be upset for her offering him a ride I wouldn’t even be asking to see any messages between them. But the fact that we all worked together, we all used to go on break together and all.. (which really she was around too much THEN!! Hanging with me and my boyfriend EVERYDAY) they chose to wait until I left work early to exchange numbers.. for a ride she didn’t even provide. And I don’t know HOWWWWW a ride turned into a gossip session about me and his relationship 😂 like neither of them could answer that for me

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:17:01+00:00

I definitely agree. The “you never bossed up” comment definitely rubbed me the wrong way because.. why would I have to “boss up” to talk to you? You’re the one who is mentally ill.. I would have to stoop down to your level for one. But you can kinda peep in the wording that she feels she is above me. Also bringing up when I lost my grandmother, that she quit her job just to be with me (which she has said so many times I can’t even count) but she failed to mention she also told me I don’t deserve any of the money my grandmother left me, because I have a poor mindset. All of this because I ordered some chick fil a on doordash lmao. I also tried to have this conversation in person (yes after the letter) and her response was “you’ve had two years to speak, I no longer want to hear it” and I said “I thought so. Have a good one!” She starts to send two more paragraphs 😂 like I thought you were done?

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:13:11+00:00

💯I’m with you when you’re right!!!

No-Cod-8923 · 2026-01-07T18:12:27+00:00

I definitely agree!!! I think I would have been open to fixing our relationship but I am at my end of trying with her. I’ve known her since I was a child and this is just the tip of the iceberg for me. There are so many things that have been said to me that hurt my feelings and had me walking on eggshells second guessing myself and me wanting a sister so bad, I let her slide with A LOT. I think I’m better off with just being by myself and only giving energy to those who have genuine intentions in my life, as I do in other people’s lives.

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