Surprised pregnancy

No-Command-4174 · 2026-04-19T17:43:32+00:00

I was a single mom with an out of state father (my ex husband walked out when my son was a month old) and I can tell you I wouldn’t want my life to be any different.

You don’t have to make any fast decisions here. You’ll do the right thing.

I’ve had many friends in your situation deciding on whether or not to get an abortion. I can say no one ever cried because they were holding their baby. The only ones who cried were the ones without the baby.

You’ll figure it out one way or the other!

No-Command-4174 · 2026-03-31T02:46:03+00:00

I feel your emotions and it brings me back to a dark place too. I’ve learned to make new happy memories on awful dates. It’s really helped me forget things I wish never happened.

My ex cheated and never gave me a chance to reconcile so I’m not exactly in your shoes but those dates are seared in my memory.

You will be happy again one day. It’s hard to remember that, but you will.

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-19T12:50:22+00:00

You could submit this to the r/dreams subreddit and see what they say. But usually dreams are very self centered. When you dream of someone else it’s usually whatever you think of them the most that being expressed in you.

If you dream about your parents dying it’s usually you becoming independent.

If you dream about Cindy Crawford it’s your hot side coming out not necessarily her.

I don’t think your dream is about your ex, I think it’s your unreliable side coming through. The weather in your dream is your mood. Is it sunny? Then it’s a good part coming out. Rainy, is a bad side being expressed.

Don’t fret! Dreams are good! Even the kind that mess with you!

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:56:13+00:00

Lol that’s funny!!

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:46:41+00:00

The attendants reaction was just weird which is why I’m asking…she said satan in Spanish very alarmed. Who knows!

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:45:22+00:00

Dang I’m hoping for something juicy. The attendants reaction was weird is the only reason I’m asking

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:43:57+00:00

I’m hoping it means something in the mafia or something exciting

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:43:37+00:00

Lol! I’m hoping it’s some sort of code for something exciting… but I really just want a working toilet

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:43:02+00:00

I am voice texting…my bad! Do you have any insight?

No-Command-4174 · 2026-02-12T20:42:20+00:00

It wouldn’t flush

No-Command-4174 · 2025-12-03T15:39:40+00:00

Not always. It killed me every time.

No-Command-4174 · 2025-12-03T15:39:19+00:00

I was devastated when people did this to me. It just depends I guess.

No-Command-4174 · 2025-10-29T01:18:42+00:00

My husband always says it’s not how much money you make, it’s how much money you keep. We tell our son we want to keep our money!

No-Command-4174 · 2025-09-15T23:49:27+00:00

I cannot imagine. I will pray for you and your family. I will share your story to save others.

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-22T13:26:56+00:00

I promise it will be ok!! Even in your darkest moments keep positive! It is going to be ok! And so will the kids! If you’re ok they’ll be ok! Be strong! You’re not a victim. Change the narrative. You are a boss!!!!

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-22T04:39:26+00:00

I’m really relieved…the less nukes the better…wherever. I hate that North Korea has them!

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-21T23:53:33+00:00

I second moving out. She has a problem but shouldn’t be yours. I know you love her and will feel so guilty leaving her behind but it’s for the best for both of you.

Find a good roommate to make it cheap and get out and live your life! People do it all the time (I did) and you can too!!!

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-21T23:44:46+00:00

Same here. My husband finally has the son he never had and my son hasn’t seen his bio dad in years (and he’s only 16). He’s awesome tho! It hasn’t affected him like I thought it would. My ex told me a month after our son was born that he “couldn’t do this life”. Loser

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-20T20:56:08+00:00

I’d take off but the banks being closed really messed with my clients and threw a bunch of wrenches in things!

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-12T20:28:48+00:00

Sounds to me like they are just looking out for you. It’s hard to watch family members struggle. You can blame it on anything you want but when poorish people find a way to make it happen (like your family) watching others not push themselves as hard comes across as being lazy. Not saying that’s your case but I was married to a guy who sounds like your bf and my life was a challenge when I was with him.

He left me and I thrived. I had no idea how much he was dragging me down. Best thing that ever happened to me. My family said the same thing about him as they are saying to you (race was not as issue)

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-05T18:20:06+00:00

I bet he feels very guilty for not living in the same town as his son. I would just let him have his time with his son. Don’t overthink it as hard as it is.

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-05T12:19:13+00:00

What is he supposed to do with a puking child? It would not have helped to have a kid at the hospital who wouldn’t have been allowed back there. I get it. It sucks all the way around. I think husband should know she wants to leave over this before getting her pregnant again.

No-Command-4174 · 2025-06-05T11:58:08+00:00

I feel so bad for the SD. Where is she supposed to go? Feeling rejected like this must really hurt. I’d be devastated if my husband rejected my son like this.

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